Authentic life experiences can separate a good country song from a great one, and Vince Gill’s “The Key to Life” is no exception. The closing track of Gill’s 1998 album The Key not only offers a heartwarming glimpse into the “nicest guy in Nashville”’s relationship with his father. It also describes how Gill came to be a musician.
Gill has introduced the song in concert several different times over the years, each one offering a new, intimate look at the incomparable relationship between Gill and his father, Stan Gill.
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What Vince Gill’s “The Key to Life” Really Means
Vince Gill released “The Key to Life” one year after his father, Stan Gill, died at 65. The closing track to The Key paints a somber picture of a son grieving his father, wishing he could hear him play classic tunes like “John Henry,” “I Fall to Pieces,” and “On the Wings of a Dove.” Just a few chords on the banjo, that was all he knew, Gill sings in the second verse. But in the eyes of a child, man, his fingers flew.
Although Stan Gill never pursued a professional music career, he was a hobbyist guitar and banjo player. He taught Vince Gill how to play three chords—the classics, G major, C major, and D major—when Vince was a child. This, the songwriter explains in the final verse, was his key to life. The pain of losin’ him cuts like a Randall knife, Vince sings. I learned a few chords on the banjo as the key to life.
“He knew I loved music, and he loved music, man, he was a music freak,” Gill said of his father during a 2015 performance at The Birchmere. “He loved all kinds of music, always playing records, he played the banjo just a little bit, you know, a little frailing style banjo and can play folk songs and a few chords on the guitar. We just had the best time. I just wanted to play because he did.”
The Songwriter Balanced His Sincerity With A Bit Of Comedy
Despite the deeply personal meaning behind the song, Vince Gill has never let his introductions for “The Key to Life” get too sad. He frequently talks about how his father was “old school” and a “redneck,” recalling antics between him and his father that ranged from sentimental to hilarious. One such latter story included the time when Stan Gill asked Vince if he’d like to have money to take girls out.
“I said, ‘Man, that’d be awesome. Thanks, Dad, I appreciate it,’” Vince recalled at a different 2015 performance in Glendale, Pennsylvania. “He goes, ‘No problem, get a job.’ We went and lied about my age, and he got me a job with a little pizza parlor down the street. I made pizzas every night til midnight every now and then, and the phone would ring about 30 minutes before we close. I’d hear, ‘Hey, son, is that you?’ I said, ‘Yeah, Daddy it’s me, what’s up?’ He said, ‘Do me a favor. Screw up a couple on purpose, and bring them home with you.’”
The singer-songwriter went on to joke that he was still attending therapy to deal with the images of his dad sitting at the dinner table in his underwear, eating pizza. The relationship between Stan and Gill and the influence the former had on the latter is evident in every line of Vince’s song “The Key to Life.”
Indeed, from the lines about Stan’s opinion on Vince’s career—He didn’t care that everybody knew my name. He said it’s all for nothin’ if you don’t stay the same—to the lines about Vince dealing with Stan’s passing—I’d love to hear the banjo ring for me tonight, “The Key to Life” is a timeless tribute to Vince Gill’s father.
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