Astrology on Parade

Why Moon Sign Compatibility Matters in Love

By MaKayla McRae,

3 days ago

Astrology is a valuable, introspective tool for self-awareness, interpersonal development, and love . When discussing matters of the heart, astrologers look at the Moon sign in a person's natal chart. The Moon represents our innermost emotional needs and is vital in romantic and relationship issues.

While all lunar sign matches can work, some experience more ease and flow when relating to one another. A complete, accurate compatibility report requires full consideration of all parties' birth charts. However, looking at your and your lover's Moon signs is an excellent point to start considering your relationship's natural synastry.

Read on for your Moon sign to figure out which Moon sign pairings work best for you.

How to Calculate Your or Your Crush's Moon Sign

You can find your Moon sign, as well as your crush's, online. Many great free resources, such as this Moon sign calculator , can help you figure out your lunar zodiac sign. Heads up, you'll need each person's date, year, time, and birth location to confidently calculate the correct Moon sign.

Why Moon Sign Compatibility or Synastry Matters

When it comes to love, Moon sign compatibility makes all the difference. Our Moon sign represents our natural disposition. It's correlated to how we were nurtured (or lacked it) growing up and, therefore, our emotional lens through which we see the world. It is what we need to feel seen, understood, loved and find healing in our relationships. It is who we are behind closed doors, in our homes.

Naturally, then, we hope to build a future with someone who compliments these emotional needs and is able to make us feel secure in our connections and interactions.

Can Incompatible Moon Signs, or Synastry, Work?

When people share similar lunar themes, there's a sense of instantaneous connection. Lacking moon sign compatibility doesn't doom a relationship, however. It simply requires understanding the emotional needs of one another's lunar zodiac sign and learning how to meet them intentionally rather than through our lens of how we typically wish to receive love.

Related: 3 Most Devoted Zodiac Signs

Which Moon Signs Are Compatible With Yours?

Aries, Leo, Sagittarius Moon - Fire Moon Signs Compatibility

Fire Moon signs tend to feel at home with either fellow Fire Moons or those with an Air sign Moon (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius Moons).

A pairing of Fire Moon signs is unstoppable. Confident, determined, and inspirational, their love language is passion. It's important to them both that the honeymoon-like phase of excitement, novelty, and interest never fades in their long-term relationships. They both crave someone to be their hype man, encouraging them to see the best in themselves, validate their needs, and never settle for less.

When a Fire Moon sign matches with an Air Moon sign, excitement follows. The Air sign fans the flames of their fiery passion. The inquisitive, curious nature of this element compliments the on-the-go, youthful disposition of Fire Moons. The Air partner helps the Fire practice detachment, knowing when they should lean back and internalize before reacting.

Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn Moon - Earth Moon Signs Compatibility

Earth Moon signs tend to feel at home with either fellow Earth Moons or those with a Water sign Moon.

A pairing of Earth sign moons is steadfast. Mature, refined, and grounded, their love language is reliability. It's important to them that a relationship provides them security, comfort, and predictability. They both crave utmost loyalty through the twists and turns of life and someone who wants to build a solid foundation together. In this coupling, their needs are often met.

When an Earth Moon meets a Water Moon, there's a feeling of comfort. The Water Moon sees through their hushed front, peering into their innermost emotional experience. The lunar Earth appreciates how dedicated the other is in validating and supporting them, helping them introspect and resolve issues. There's a natural synastry here.

Gemini, Libra, Aquarius Moon - Air Moon Signs Compatibility

Air Moon signs tend to feel at home with either fellow Air Moons or those with a Fire Moon sign.

A pairing of Air Moon signs is witty. Swift, on-the-go, and fluid, their love language is intellectual stimulation. It's important to them that a partner is curious to follow them wherever their active mind goes, open-minded, and accepting that life is full of unpredictability. They both crave someone who wants to learn, experience life to the fullest, and philosophically unravel their surroundings. In this coupling, their needs are met.

When an Air Moon meets a Fire Moon sign, there's resonance. The Fire moon sign is passionate about life, which makes the Air lunar person curious to learn more and follow their lead. The Lunar Fire reminds the Air person that their ideas are worth putting into action, not just contemplating in their own head, and helps them beat indecision. There's affinity in this match.

Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces Moon - Water Moon Signs Compatibility

Water Moon signs tend to feel at home either with other Water Moons or those with an Earth Moon sign.

A pairing of Water Moon signs is sentimental. Emotional, compassionate, and nostalgic, their love language is validating one another's experience. They both crave lovers who want to build their own safe haven away from the bittersweet outside world. Together, they find compatibility in creating spaces to find heaven on earth.

When a Water Moon meets an Earth Moon sign, there's mutual understanding. The Water Moon craves a lover who can give them stability among their everchanging moods and emotional experiences that take over their focus. They appreciate the groundedness of the Lunar Earth person, who always brings them back to reality and empowers them to take control.