Former Bridesmaids And Groomsmen, Tell Us The "Red Flags" That Made You Realize Your Friend's Marriage Would End In Divorce

When it comes to relationships, the people around you sometimes spot the red flags before you do.

So, if you were a bridesmaid or groomsman for your friend who later divorced, when was the moment you realized they made the wrong choice?

Like, maybe on the wedding day, when you spotted your friend's new spouse flirting with someone else in the wedding party — which was just the beginning of lots of cheating, eventually ending the marriage.

Perhaps early in the relationship, you picked up on red flags that signaled the relationship wasn't healthy. Like, you noticed your friend stopped showing up to hangouts — and you later found out their partner started controlling who they should hang out with.

Or maybe the relationship seemed perfect, but it was clear the couple rushed into things. And it was one moment when you caught up with your friend after they got married that it was clear they barely knew their new spouse — and things eventually fell apart.

Former bridesmaids and groomsmen, what was the moment you realized your friend made the wrong choice and shouldn't have gotten married? Tell us in the comments below, or if you prefer to remain anonymous, feel free to use this Google form . Your response could be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Community post.