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If you are in a relationship, you will tend to want to spend as much time as possible with your partner, especially if you are in the beginning of the relationship. And the longer you stay with him, the more you will lose independence. And we're not saying it's a bad thing, just that with it, you'll depend more and more on your partner, maybe even lose your confidence in yourself.

Very often, we fall into some kind of trap and end up devoting ourselves so much to the relationship we are in, implicitly the partner, that we end up neglecting ourselves and stop doing the things that we used to enjoy before being in a relationship.

Just because you're in a relationship, that doesn't mean you have to forget your identity but rather give time to both you and your partner equally. Whether you realize it or not, in the long run, it will help you be independent. By independence, you should not mean that you are not involved in the relationship, but only that you forget that your happiness and peace of mind are much more important.

Of course, a relationship can change you, but the most important thing is to realize what makes you happy and what doesn't. As far as astrology is concerned, some zodiac signs need more independence in a relationship than others:

Gemini

Gemini women want more and more independence, even in a relationship. It is extremely important for them to feel more and more self-confident and not need to turn to those around them. They constantly need their partner to understand these moments because independence is part of who they are. The free and adventurous spirit is what keeps them always in contact with those around them, and thus they end up having unique experiences. But, if the partner does not agree with this way of being, try to explain to him that this way, you are happy.

Sagittarius

The Sagittarius woman loves spending time alone and will do it whenever she needs to. Not only does she try to instill this way of being in her partner, but for her a relationship means that each partner also has time for him. A relationship with a partner who does not respect this independence will not work for her, so she wants a partner for whom adventure and travel are the order of the day. He needs a partner with whom he can share these experiences without compromising on this.

Capricorn

For the Capricorn woman, career will always come first. Even in a relationship, she will still focus more on her professional life than her love life. It is not difficult for him to make time for her because he knows that only in this way she can be truly happy. And just because you focus too much on the job, that doesn't mean you should neglect yourself. Find someone who shares the same values ​​as you, without having to make a hard choice and choose between you and your partner.

Aquarius

The Aquarius woman is one of those women for whom freedom plays an extremely important role. She is always creative and will always find solutions to make time for herself, even in a relationship. And just because he has this way of being, doesn't mean he doesn't want a relationship, just that the relationship he's in wants to be one with no strings attached. What's more, she can find someone who will appreciate this way of being with her much more.