In the realm of human sexuality, researchers have long grappled with how to accurately capture the complexities of non-normative sexual practices, often referred to under the umbrella of “kink.” Now, a team of scientists has developed and validated a new tool designed to measure various aspects of kink engagement — the Kink Orientation Scale. The study detailing this work was recently published in The Journal of Sex Research.

Want to know how kinky you are? This new scientific scale can tell you

Waddling up the 107 steps of Wembley Stadium in the height of a climatically challenging, verging on cruel, summer isn’t exactly how I envisaged I’d spend my night. Crowds of pre-teens race up the stairs next to me, hand-in-hand, adorned in feather boas, pink rhinestone-frosted cowboy hats, glitter and stacks of friendship bracelets. Merchandise touts flog Taylor Swift-emblazoned T-shirts and hoodies with the fervour of gavel-waving auctioneers at the close of sale. Not since attending Britney Spears’ ‘Oops!... I Did It Again Tour’ in 2000 – my first taste of pop stardom, IRL – have I felt the palpable electricity of fan mania, musical adoration and, more poignantly, hope in the balmy August air.

I'm Six Months Pregnant, This Is What Attending Taylor Swift's Eras Tour Taught Me About Growing Up

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[Note: Unless otherwise indicated, the commentary and quotes in this article are from the author's interview with those mentioned.]. Elizabeth Montgomery was one of the most popular actors from the 1950s to her unfortunate passing from cancer in 1995. Before, during, and after her benchmark Emmy-nominated role as twitch-witch Samantha Stephens on TV's Bewitched (ABC, 1964-1972), Montgomery made over 200 additional appearances in other weekly shows, TV-movies, and feature films.

'Bewitched' Star Elizabeth Montgomery Received Death Threats for Protesting the Vietnam War

Previously, I wrote about the red flags you may be dealing with a female psychopath and how female psychopaths target their victims. But how do male psychopaths operate, and what kind of traits and behaviors do they seek in a potential romantic partner? Here are the four surprising traits psychopaths look for in women. Keep in mind that if you were targeted by a psychopathic person, it was not your fault, as they can use both your strengths and your vulnerabilities against you.

Psychopaths Look For Women With These 4 Surprising Traits In Romantic Relationships

The sayings, “Actions speak louder than words,” and “It’s not what you say, but how you say it,” are popular adages for good reason. Our silent body language speaks volumes, but we may not always be aware of what we’re saying with it. The way we hold ourselves, our gestures, and even how we make eye contact can make a huge difference in how people perceive us.

5 body language habits that make you instantly more charming

Relationships require a lot of effort and dating can often be a drag, but it’s important to remember that your love life is also supposed to be fun. Are you and your partner in desperate need of a night out? Does your outlook need a little more levity? This week’s tarot reading says yes.

Your Love Life This Week, According To A Tarot Reader

While cheering on my brother-in-law as he ran his first marathon in Boston in 2019, my feet started to ache. I spotted an Allbirds nearby, and though the brand was relatively new in the U.S., the Wool Runners were rumored to feel like slipping into a pair of cozy socks. I wasn’t the one running the race, but after hours standing in the chilly New England air, even my toes needed relief. So, between our designated water handoff points, I ducked into a store—and my love affair with Allbirds began.

One Allbirds Die-Hard Tries the Latest Offering: The New Tree Glider

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A bill quietly introduced this spring in the Colorado legislature to decriminalize the possession of drug paraphernalia obtained by harm reductionists has become law. As low-key as the legislation was introduced, the bill was signed into law without fanfare June 6. It garnered little to no media attention.

Colorado legalizes needles, pipes for meth and crack if obtained by harm reduction group

You raised them, loved them, and launched them into the world. Now your kids are adults with lives of their own. It's a beautiful thing, right? Absolutely. But let's be real: navigating relationships and boundaries with adult children can also be a little...tricky. We want to support their independence while...

How to Set Boundaries With Your Adult Children

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In today’s digital world, smartphones have become extensions of ourselves. While they keep us connected, they can also create barriers in relationships. If your partner is constantly glued to their phone, you’re likely feeling neglected, frustrated, and even disrespected.

How to Handle a Partner Who Is Constantly on Their Phone

It only took one day of temperatures dropping below 80 degrees for me to start thinking about the fall 2024 boot trends. Even if it’s only a small tease of what’s to come, my mind is ready to switch over to the next season. And though transitional weather can be tricky to figure out, the best way to take it in stride is with a good pair of boots.

I Can’t Stop Thinking About These Chic Fall Boot Trends

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Disclaimer: This article was written with the help of A.I. software. On July 28, 2024, a TikTok video posted by Erica W., known as @tasteofmelanin on the platform, garnered significant attention after she exposed disturbing racist decorations in an Airbnb rental. The incident occurred in a rental property that Erica had booked, although the exact location remains unspecified. The video has since gone viral, prompting widespread concern and leading to the removal of the listing from Airbnb's platform.

Airbnb Listing Taken Down After Black Woman Finds Hanging Monkeys and Cotton Used As Decor

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Nonverbal communication experts say the way we interlace our fingers can reveal a lot about our personality. This idea is supported by the work of Roger Walcott Sperry, a Nobel laureate who found that left-brain or right-brain dominance influences our behavior.

Test from a neuropsychologist: clasp your hands and find out your personality type

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Adam Rich was born on October 12, 1968, lived a troubled life, and died on January 7, 2023, at only 54 years old. This is his story. He lived in the Granada Hills area of Los Angeles with his parents and younger brother. The Rich family resided for a time in Florida where Adam studied acting at the local gym.

A Look Back at the Tragic Life and Death of Former Child Star Adam Rich (TV's 'Eight is Enough')

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Heman Bekele, a 15-year-old from Virginia, has a big idea with life-saving potential.

How We Chose TIME’s 2024 Kid of the Year

One of the most beloved Hollywood stars in the history of television, in particular, was actress Frances Bavier, who died in 1989 at age 85. The likable actress became best known for her compassionate and nurturing role as Aunt Bee on The Andy Griffith Show (CBS, 1960-1968).

Beloved 'Andy Griffith Show' Actress Frances Bavier ("Aunt Bee"): A Look Back at Her Life and Career

Empathy is defined as the ability to perceive the inner mental states of others (including animals). Healthy empathy development leads to more positive social interactions and promotes prosocial behaviors. Involving children in caring animal interactions enhances empathy, perspective taking, and self-awareness. Empathy is defined as the ability to perceive and...

We Teach Them to Roll Over, They Teach Us Empathy

Albert Ellis, considered one of the key figures in the field of psychotherapy, had an invaluable impact on psychological science with his innovative approach. He provided deep insights into human behavior and practical tools for achieving emotional well-being and happiness.

He Lived 93 Years: 4 Wise Rules of Life from the Most Influential Psychotherapist Albert Ellis

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The mantis shrimp is one tough customer. Beautiful and deadly are two words you don’t typically use to describe shrimp, but the mantis shrimp is definitely in a class of its own; earning a reputation as the ‘savage boxer of the sea’ and one of the most fearsome creatures in the ocean. And, they're right at home here in South Carolina.

Savage Boxer of the Sea: The Deadly Beauty of Mantis Shrimp

Dating someone significantly older has long been a topic of discussion and often comes with its own set of societal judgments. However, the benefits of dating a partner 10 years older are numerous and can lead to a deeply fulfilling relationship. In this article, we’ll explore the advantages of such relationships, provide insights into the dynamics involved, and offer advice on how to navigate the potential challenges.

Why women and men should date partners 10 years older

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