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  • J. A. Jackson

    First Date Red Flags: What Women Secretly Wish Men Would Stop Doing – Tips for a Stellar Date

    2023-12-22

    Embarking on a first date can be a nerve-wracking experience, and for women, certain behaviors can be instant deal-breakers. Fellas, take note – this is your ultimate guide to avoiding first date pitfalls!

    From cringe-worthy conversations to awkward gestures, women spill the tea on what they wish men wouldn't do on first dates. It's time to unravel the secrets of successful dating, one lesson at a time.

    One recurring theme in women's experiences is the discomfort
    caused by men who fail to "read the room." From unwanted advances to
    pushing for physical intimacy, the call for respecting personal boundaries
    echoes loud and clear. Body language matters – a lesson some men are yet to
    learn.

    First dates should be about forging connections, not dissecting past relationships. Women express frustration over men who insist on talking
    about ex-partners or offering unsolicited advice. The consensus: keep the
    conversation focused on the present and the potential future.

    Amidst the dating mishaps, women highlight the importance of
    genuine conversation and social skills. The desire for meaningful interactions, charm, and mutual interest is palpable. Ladies want attention, not unwanted
    drama or unsolicited commentary.

    Personal stories unveil the raw experiences women endure, such
    as the cringe-worthy moment when a date leans in for a kiss despite clear
    signals of disinterest. Real-life anecdotes add a layer of authenticity, making
    it clear why certain behaviors are absolute no-nos.

    As women express their dating preferences, the implication is
    clear – successful first dates require a delicate balance of respect, genuine
    interest, and a keen awareness of social cues. The question lingers: why do
    some men continue to ignore these crucial elements?

    While women acknowledge that first dates can be challenging, the
    consensus is that certain behaviors are universally off-putting. From dressing
    appropriately to respecting personal space, men can enhance their dating game
    by heeding the wisdom shared by those who've been there, cringed at that.

    Fellas, take this guide to heart and let it serve as a roadmap
    to smoother first dates. By avoiding these common pitfalls, you'll increase
    your chances of leaving a positive impression and securing that coveted second
    date. Here's to more successful, respectful, and enjoyable dating experiences
    for all!


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    Katrina
    12-26
    I’ve had a couple of really strange dates years ago. One guy told me that he recently broke up with a girl and his doctor put him on antidepressants. And he hoped I didn’t mind. And the asked me for a second date, and he said he would cook for me and we could cuddle. Wait, what? Yeah, there was no second date. I met another guy who wanted to go out a few days after we met. I told him no, that I was working 12 hour shifts for 3 days in a row, and I would be too tired. So the second day I was working, he kept calling my phone all day, but I didn’t pick up. The third day he called several times, and after I got home, he called again! I was a nurse working in the ICU for 3 days and I was over it! I told him in no uncertain terms that I was not interested, and he completely acted like he didn’t hear me and kept making plans for a date. I finally had to be rude and raise my voice and I said NO! And I hung up. He was scary!
    bob barker
    12-25
    They would like women to stop acting as if the men are cash machines. I literally had a woman tell me that men needed to pay for everything and that she wouldn’t date a man that wouldn’t pay for EVERYTHING. She included vacations in this metric. What she didn’t seem to get was that she is a 41 year old women with declining assets. (As long as we are monetizing things). Younger women will provide the same services for less. It’s no wonder that men are going overseas to find wives.
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