Should people ever shout at their partner if they are annoyed?

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Yelling at a partner is seen by some as going too far and not a good way to communicate. Some would say any yelling is wrong and others would say that it's a normal part of a relationship, within reason.

First, we're going to talk about some Oregon marriage counseling advice. The two parts of this article are clearly marked with bold text.

Oregon Marriage Counseling: Where To Turn To Get Help

Marriage is not easy and many decide to call it quits when things get tough. It's generally a good idea, as long as there is no abuse involved, to speak with a professional and see if an issue or two can be worked through to save a relationship.

There are websites like this one called Mental Health Match that can help you find out what your marriage counseling options are in Oregon state. You can also narrow it down by searching for the name of your city along with the words marriage counseling on a search engine.

How about when you're not sure if your marriage is even safe to stay in? In this instance, it's wise to speak with a professional by yourself to get some advice. In the state of Oregon 12.5 percent of the population have been involved with a divorce which is higher than the national average of 10.5 percent, according to a popular divorce lawyer website.

When Is Yelling Okay Or Is It Never Okay?

A partner that yells at someone constantly is not a good person and that's not what we're talking about here. If you're dealing with that then tell someone and figure out a plan. Someone like a therapist can get you in touch with help and create a plan with you to get away from the problem.

I heard from someone recently that they know a woman yelled at her husband because he got into some food in their house that wasn't his. It was an ingredient for a meal and it caused her to yell at him out of frustration.

Many would seem to understand the wife's frustration, and if you do feel free to comment. However, this article says if a relationship has a lot of yelling it means the walls of communication have broken down. That article also is mainly about how to stop yelling in a relationship so it may be a good read if you're in a situation where you need to work on that.

According to a website dedicated to helping abuse victims, some abusive relationships simply involve lots of yelling. This is a form of verbal abuse and they say on ther website that people should not be yelled at on a regular basis. Some frustration is normal it seems, but someone always being upset and yelling is where many draw the line.

Now I hand the question off to the readers: when is yelling a problem or is it ever a problem? Please speak your minds here and feel free to talk about finding a marriage counselor in Oregon as well.