Interviewing Your Potential Partner

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What if we could ask important questions in a simple interview to determine if someone was right for us? We wouldn’t have to go on numerous dates, have him meet our friends and family, and search for information about him on social media to gage whether he would be a good partner.

How many people do you suppose wish they had asked certain questions about topics that later caused a rift in the relationship? I know there were a few I wish I had asked.

Which questions matter to you the most? Here is a list of possible questions I have put together. I would love to hear what you would add.

· How would you describe yourself in three words?

· Can you describe what you are looking for in a partner?

· What have you learned from past relationships?

· Do you want to be married someday?

· Do you want children?

· What are your religious beliefs? What if I have different beliefs?

· How well do you handle money? Describe your financial situation.

· What are your long-term goals?

· Do you like animals?

· Do you like to travel?

· What interests do you have? What activities do you like to do?

· Would you rather spend time in the mountains, at the beach, or both?

· What is something romantic you have done?

· What type of movies do you like?

· What kind of music do you listen to?

· What is your favorite television show?

· What is your family like?

· Describe your best friend.

· How do you celebrate your birthday?

· What is a perfect date for you?

· Would you rather be out at a club, or at home?

· Do you smoke or drink heavily?

· Are you active?

· What is the most important thing in your life right now?

· What are your political beliefs?

· What do you think is the key to a successful relationship?

I know this is a short list, but I think you are already thinking of more you would add. When we make a commitment to someone, it’s a good idea to communicate as much as possible, so that we are not surprised later in the relationship.