Is He Just Not That Into You? How to Change the Game and Get Noticed

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This article was written with the help of AI.

If you’ve ever felt invisible to the guy you’re crushing on, you’re not alone. It can be frustrating when you put yourself out there, and he just doesn’t seem to notice. But before you throw in the towel, it’s time to change the game and approach things differently.

First, take a step back. Often, the harder you try to get someone’s attention, the less likely you are to get it. Desperation can be a huge turn-off. Instead of focusing all your energy on him, focus on yourself. Confidence is magnetic, and when you’re genuinely happy and secure in your own life, people take notice.

Next, make subtle shifts in your behavior. Engage in lighthearted, playful conversation when you’re around him—don’t take yourself too seriously. Show interest in his hobbies, but don’t overdo it. Let your personality shine naturally without coming across as trying too hard. This will make you more approachable and interesting.

Lastly, stop seeking his validation. If he senses you’re looking for his approval, he’s less likely to offer it. Instead, be unapologetically yourself. When you’re comfortable in your own skin, he’ll be drawn to your authenticity.

By making these small changes, you’ll find that you don’t need to chase his attention—he’ll start noticing you on his own.

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