Wondering Why He Hasn't Approached? Here’s How to Get Him to Make the First Move

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This article was written with the help of AI.

You’ve locked eyes a few times, smiled at him across the room, but he’s still not coming over. What gives? It’s a common scenario: you’re wondering why he hasn’t made the first move yet. Is he not interested, or could he just be unsure?

The reality is that many men hesitate to approach women because of fear of rejection or simply not picking up on the signals. But don’t worry—you can help him out without doing all the work yourself. The key lies in sending the right cues and making him feel comfortable enough to cross the room.

Start by making eye contact, holding it for a few seconds, and then looking away with a subtle smile. This flirty, non-verbal cue shows him you’re approachable and interested. To up the ante, position yourself in his line of sight and be open in your body language—no crossed arms or closed-off posture.

Once he’s close enough, try a light compliment or playful comment to break the ice. You don’t have to initiate a full conversation, but giving him a little nudge can be just what he needs to take the plunge and introduce himself.

Remember, men often need a little encouragement. Be confident, approachable, and let your body language do the talking.

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