Stalking and Cyber Stalking: A Survivor's Story

Irene GabelnickPhoto byLaw Enforcement Talk Radio Show and Podcast

Buffalo, NY - Irene Gabelnick's harrowing experience with stalking and cyber danger is a chilling reminder that these threats are not limited to celebrities. Her ordeal highlights the trauma and safety concerns that accompany such violations, and her story is a call to action for greater awareness and protection.

Stalking and Cyber Danger: An Increasing Threat

Stalking is characterized by repeated, unwanted attention that instills fear in the victim. It is illegal across all 50 states, the District of Columbia, and on tribal and federal lands, though the definitions and consequences vary. Common stalking behaviors include:

Persistent calls, text messages, emails, or social media posts

Following or appearing at locations the victim frequents

Using technology to track and share personal information

Issuing threats to the victim or their loved ones

Statistics underscore the prevalence of this issue:

Approximately 15% of women and 6% of men in the U.S. have experienced stalking.

Over 50% of female and 30% of male survivors were first stalked before the age of 25.

More than 80% of stalking victims knew their stalker, with current or former partners being the most common perpetrators.

Irene Gabelnick's Journey Through Fear and Trauma

A former fitness and nutrition blogger, real estate agent, and nonprofit advocate, Irene Gabelnick's life was upended by a stalker. What began as intrusive behavior escalated into a relentless invasion of her privacy, leaving her feeling unsafe even within her own home. The trauma forced her to drastically alter her lifestyle, reducing her visibility on social media platforms like Facebook and Instagram.

Initially, Irene believed that stalking was an issue confined to public figures. However, her personal experience revealed that anyone could be targeted. She has since shared her story across social media and on platforms like Apple Podcasts and Spotify, emphasizing the critical need for awareness and safety precautions. Her narrative serves as a stark warning that stalking can intensify and inflict severe psychological harm.

Raising Awareness and Advocating for Safety

Through various media appearances and interviews, including a feature on our podcast, Irene Gabelnick discusses her journey from fear to recovery. She provides valuable insights into how she navigated the aftermath of her trauma. Irene continues her advocacy on platforms like the Clubhouse Social Audio app, where she hosts discussions, shares her experiences, and offers resources to others.

Irene's courageous decision to speak out serves as a powerful testament to the reality of stalking and cyber danger. Her story is a vital reminder that these threats can affect anyone, urging individuals to recognize the warning signs and take proactive steps to protect themselves and their loved ones. For more information about her books and advocacy, visit her website and follow her on social media.

Listen to the entire interview about stalking, the very real fear and her process to build the life she wants This is available as a free podcast on the Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show website on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and other major platforms. For more updates, follow us on Facebook, Instagram, the Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show website and various social media outlets.

Attributions

Victim Connect

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