He May Be Playing Hard to Get, But He Likes You If He Does These Eight Things...

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Dating in the modern world can be very confusing. Emotions and intentions can easily get lost in translation through text, the primary mode of communication these days. People tell you what you want to hear even though they do not mean it; they have ulterior motives—either intimate needs, attention, or external validation. Although I naturally write from a female perspective, men experience this, too.

How do you know if someone is genuinely interested in you?

They may even tell you upfront that they are not interested in a relationship. Or, they may say they want to keep it simple. However, suddenly, you are texting every day, and that is the only person you are interested in. Do they feel the same way? You play it cool and assure them you are just enjoying them and don't want or need a relationship.

But... deep down, you wish they would give you some sign of how they really feel. You realize you are falling. HARD. This is the point of no return. It's okay to feel this way. It's a part of the dating journey, and your emotions are valid.

Eight Signs He Is Enamored with You More Than You Think

1. The chats move from social media to texts to phone conversations.
2. He goes out of his way for you. He doesn't care if it is inconvenient because, in his eyes, you are worth it. You see the effort immediately.
3. He starts sending good morning and good night texts because you are the first and last thing on his mind each day.
4. He uses cute emojis- hearts and kisses are a sure sign he is falling for you.
5. He cares about your world. He asks questions to show interest.
6. He prioritizes you and is proud to be with you.
7. He shares stories about his life growing up and is vulnerable with you.
8. He makes plans to be with you again.

Final Thoughts

Each relationship is different. Sometimes, we do not need to label it a relationship or call ourselves a couple to know we are into each other. Trust the process and allow it to unfold naturally if it feels right. Someone might say they don't want a relationship because they are afraid of being hurt. But once they fall in love, the rest will fall into place. There is no need to force or rush anything. Forcing someone will scare them off faster than anything. Play it cool. Avoid playing games. Honesty is the best policy.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. Best of luck in the dating world.

Peace & Light,

Libby