Why Humor Empowers Relationships & How Small Things Can Easily Create Frustration Without It

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Whether you're in a new relationship or have been together for years, it's okay to find humor in the little things that sometimes bug you. We often overlook countless minor quirks and habits, but they can sometimes be a source of frustration and resentment after a while. According to relationship specialist, John Gottman, couples who find humor and are able to laugh together are more resilient.

Today, I'm keeping things light and hope you can enjoy these thought-provoking questions or at least have a good laugh. Some of these are more important to some people, and others shrug it off and think it is no big deal.

Things That Some Partners Could Debate in Relationships

• Is wearing socks with sandals a good look or a no-no?
• Does loud chewing or lip-smacking annoy you?
• Is double dipping okay or gross?
• Is it acceptable to eat from your partner's plate?
• Over or under with the toilet paper roll?
• Private or share intimate details with friends, family, and social media?
• Text or call- which is better communication?

Final Thoughts

I'd love to hear your thoughts on these questions. Do you and your partner see these issues eye to eye? If not, do any of these pose a challenge to the long-term health of your relationship? Share your experiences in the comments below.

It is the little things that most often make or break a relationship. Should you break up over which way the toilet paper goes on? Personally I am grateful if someone replaces the toilet paper no matter how they put it on. If something bothers you, talk about it and work toward a compromise.

Balance the things that drive you crazy or that you do that drive your partner up the wall with small, kind gestures. Random hugs, occasional handwritten cards, a surprise date night, or compliments can go a long way to offset frustration. Good communication is critical. Celebrate each other's victories, keep each other's secrets private, thank them and show gratitude, honor their needs, apologize when you are wrong or make a mistake, and avoid nagging and raising your voice. Remember to laugh and enjoy life together.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. I wish you the best in love and life.

Peace & Light,

Libby