Shannen Doherty, 53, Slams Publication as ‘Sleazy’ for Violating Her Privacy & Asking Questions About Divorce as She Battles Stage 4 Breast Cancer

Protecting Privacy Amid the Cancer Journey

• Iconic actress Shannen Doherty, 53, slammed what she referred to as a “sleazy” gossip magazine for disrespecting her privacy and asking her for comment about her divorce while she is currently living with advanced cancer.
• Doherty was first diagnosed with breast cancer in 2015. It went into remission in 2017 but returned as stage 4 cancer in 2019. Her breast cancer has since spread to her brain causing her to undergo surgery to remove the tumor.
• Metastatic breast cancer, also called “stage four” breast cancer, means that the cancer has spread, or metastasized, beyond the breasts to other parts of the body. There is technically no cure, but advancements in treatments can dramatically improve outcomes and that is something to be hopeful for.
• It’s important to remember that choosing to share a cancer journey is a personal choice, whether you’re a celebrity or not, and the same goes for other private topics like getting a divorce.

As "Beverly Hills, 90210" alum Shannen Doherty, 53, continues the "toughest fight" of her life, she has taken to social media to share an important reminder to those who choose to disrespect one's privacy, something she revealed has just happened to her. Doherty, best known for her role as Brenda Walsh in "Beverly Hills: 90210" and Prue Halliwell in "Charmed," offered some powerful words this week after what she described as a "sleazy publication" informed her they were going to write a story on her, requesting comment on a truly personal matter in her life—her recent divorce from her estranged husband of 11 years, Kurt Iswarienko. The iconic actress and animal activist posted a screenshot on Tuesday of an email she received from an In Touch Weekly reporter telling her the celebrity gossip magazine was preparing a story on her about her and Iswarienko's divorce, alleging a source had offered them some information.

Part of the email she received reads, "Sources tell In Touch that Shannen Doherty is determined to fight Kurt Iswarienko over spousal support and property division, despite her illness. Sources add that Shannen Doherty does not want to pay him 'any more than she as to,'" asking, "Would you like to add a comment or statement to our piece?" Doherty ultimately fired back, "I'm tired. As if fighting stage 4 cancer. A divorce, exhaustion isn't enough, I have to fight disgusting, sleazy publications like @intouchweekly. We told them the story is not true when they sent this e-mail to my publicist and to be blunt, it is no one’s business except mine if I choose to share. RELATED: Living With Metastatic Breast Cancer "One would think that they would have enough humanity to leave me to fight much bigger issues like cancer as opposed to them. I’m giving a last warning to publications like these…. I will absolutely sue you. I will go after everyone who has a 'source' which they do not do due diligence on." She continued, "Stop writing about me. Stop spreading your disinformation. Go earn a living in a respectable way. Do not do it at my expense because my patience with the lies you put out is gone and I will dedicate energy to go after you and shut you up once and for all." "Most of us actors, entertainers etc, got into this business to create and to bring joy to ourselves and others. That does NOT give permission to be a target as we deserve privacy just like anyone else. So please STOP. I would very much like to use any energy I have to fight the toughest fight of my life." Doherty also took to her Instagram story to call In Touch Weekly "sleazy AF," adding, "No truth is from any side. You are despicable."

Shannen Doherty's Breast Cancer Battle

Shannen Doherty first received a breast cancer diagnosis in 2015 after she discovered a lump in her breast. For treatments the first time around, she underwent hormone therapy, a single mastectomy (the removal of all breast tissue from one breast), chemotherapy and radiation. Then in 2017, Doherty was deemed to be in remission, however, the cancer returned just two years later in 2019. This time, her diagnosis was metastatic, or stage four, breast cancer. There is technically no cure for metastatic breast cancer, but that doesn’t mean people can’t live good, long lives with this stage of disease, thanks to hormone therapy, chemotherapy, targeted drugs and immunotherapy, as well as combination approaches to treatment. Doherty took to Instagram at the start of last year to recap how her cancer fight is going. She underwent her first round of radiation to her head on Jan. 12, 2023, followed by brain surgery to remove and biopsy a tumor on Jan. 16, 2023. The surgery she underwent is called a craniotomy. Stage Four Breast Cancer “It’s a procedure to cut out a tumor and it can be metastasized or a tumor that started someplace else like the breasts and went to the brain, especially if the tumor is causing symptoms or if it’s large,” Dr. Kimberly Hoang , a board-certified neurosurgeon at Emory University School of Medicine, explained. Several neurosurgeons tell SurvivorNet that the procedure can allow patients with cancer in their brain to live longer, more vibrant lives, and this appears to be the case with Doherty. “A couple of decades ago, to have a brain metastasis was a very bad prognosis for patients. They didn’t live for more than a couple of months, so it was a very terminal thing. Thanks to a lot of advancements in microsurgery we do and radiation, patients are living longer,” Dr. Hoang said.

The Choice to Share

The choice to share or not share one's cancer diagnosis is a personal one for anyone facing the disease, even if they're not a celebrity. While some people choose to share only with close friends and family, others post their entire journey on social media, create blogs and detail their treatments, side effects and doctor reports. Survivor Lauren Chiarello talks about staying present in the moment while battling cancer. According to Dr. Renee Exelbert , a licensed psychologist and founding director of The Metamorphosis Center for Psychological and Physical Change in New York, the decision to openly disclose or not disclose one's diagnosis may be made more complicated for someone in the public eye, as they may feel pressure to serve as a role model, or to use their notable platform for the greater good. She says public figures and celebrities are often held to a harsher standard, frequently having their appearance and behaviors rigorously evaluated. This might make hiding a cancer diagnosis more difficult and may also make disclosing a cancer diagnosis a greater burden to bear. Also, just because someone is a public figure or celebrity does not spare them from judgment and the insensitive comments of others, especially while they may be fighting for their life. Dr. Exelbert says the decision to disclose or not disclose a cancer diagnosis is a very individual and personal one in any case. RELATED: Former Match CEO Mandy Ginsberg On Health and Her Decision to Step Down "Certain Individuals may feel as though their sense of self has been deeply impacted by their diagnosis, and they want to keep it private. At their core, certain individuals may struggle with appearing weak, vulnerable or sick, and particularly do not want to withstand the opinion or commentary of others while facing a cancer diagnosis," she explained.

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"Additionally, some may feel that revealing a cancer diagnosis may pose a threat to their sense of professional identity and how capable they are perceived by others." Dr. Exelbert also said some may feel they don't have the coping resources to withstand scrutiny, whereas others may welcome the distraction and attention. Most importantly, however, she said there is no right or wrong approach. "When an individual experiences trauma, which cancer certainly is, they need to be in charge of how their story is told in order to avoid further disempowerment. "Thus, the decision to disclose or not to disclose should be wholly and rightfully left up to each individual." So, is one way more beneficial than the other? Dr. Exelbert says there are pros and cons to sharing. "A positive aspect of sharing one's diagnosis on social media is the potential to receive an outpouring of support, occasionally from people all over the world who have experienced something similar, and who may be able to offer useful suggestions," Exelbert says. "Additionally, someone's unique story may catch the attention of those performing clinical trials or offering unique treatment options, looking for participants." She said the ability to inspire countless people with one's experience and story can also be a very powerful motivating factor. Learn to Accept Yourself — A Huge Part of Living With Cancer "Some individuals are looking to chronicle their journey, almost as testament to what they have experienced and to leave a legacy. It might additionally be beneficial to publicly share one's story, as it can serve as a platform to educate others about cancer and its emotional and physical symptoms, as well as challenge stigma and change society." On the other hand, she says a con of revealing one's diagnosis on social media is that people may share unsolicited stories of poor outcomes that they have either heard about, or experienced personally, many of which are unrelated to your particular situation. For example, some may tell you they know someone who had the same type of cancer, but died, which can be overwhelming and create undue stress. "Additionally, once you share your diagnosis, you often have to manage the emotional experience of others," Dr. Exelbert told SurvivorNet. "Sometimes, people will be very upset by your diagnosis and need you to take care of them or make your situation easier for them to deal with. This can prove quite difficult when you are barely in control of managing your own emotions. Further, many individuals might find it quite difficult to present themselves in such a vulnerable way on social media, as many often utilize this medium to garner accolades from presenting their 'ideal self' versus their 'real self.'" RELATED: Why Do Some People Share Their Cancer Journey Publicly While Others Choose to Fight Quietly? No matter what someone's choice is when it comes to sharing a cancer diagnosis, the most important thing is that they feel support. For some, support from a few close friends, family members or professionals may be enough, while others need to feel connected on a larger scale. The last thing anyone needs is to be made to feel bad about that choice. It's important to remember that due to cancer treatment not being a one size fits all approach, it affects everyone different mentally, and not everyone feels comfortable sharing what they are going through with others in social situations. Do I need to share my diagnosis with others? Psychiatrist Dr. Lori Plutchik weighs in. Some people want to share their experiences as much as they can and others don’t want to tell anyone. Both of these approaches, and everything in between (maybe you only want to tell a few close friends about your diagnosis), are valid. “Patients who have just been diagnosed with cancer sometimes wonder how they are going to handle the diagnosis of the cancer in social situations,” psychiatrist Dr. Lori Plutchik explained to SurvivorNet in an earlier interview. “How much information they should share and with whom they should share the information … everybody is different.” Dr. Plutchik explains that some share the information widely, with family, friends, and beyond and feel comfortable doing so. “Other people are much more private about it,” she says. “And there is no one right way to handle this diagnosis. “People should do what feels right to them. Going through a cancer diagnosis, through treatment, is often a very long process. And then if you also include after treatment ends where a person is in a kind of state of limbo, waiting to see if they are clear and get their scans. It may be three months or six months into the future. People are still dealing with uncertainty at that point,” she explains. Handling Fear When You Get the Diagnosis Dr. Plutchik stresses that those close to a person going through cancer should be respectful of their wishes when it comes to disclosing their diagnosis and seeking support. Contributing: SurvivorNet Staff