More than two-thirds, 69%, of conflicts in relationships are perpetual, meaning they never go away, according to data from The Gottman Institute, a research lab run by renowned clinical psychologists John and Julie Gottman. The couple has interviewed more than 3,000 couples and followed some for as long as 20...

Successful couples use this 1 strategy to solve conflict, say psychologists who’ve studied 40,000 couples

Emotion-focused couples' therapists guide clients to understand their emotions and create new responses. Evocative questions and reflection help the client to focus on what is happening in the present moment. Empathy, acceptance, and validation are used to indirectly modify behaviors. This post is part 2 of a series. The emotion-focused...

Rebuilding Couples' Communication With Emotionally Focused Therapy

Non-monogamous relationships have been gaining interest and popularity among people looking for love. A 2021 Frontiers In Psychology study revealed that among a sample of over 3000 single US-based adults, one in six desired to engage in polyamory, one in nine had engaged in some form of polyamory at some point in their lives, and one in 15 knew someone who had previously engaged in or were currently involved in a polyamorous arrangement.

How Non-Monogamous Couples Are Surviving and Thriving

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There are certain zodiac signs that most people are careful with because of their fiery and low tolerance levels. You can hardly mess with individuals with such signs without getting a backlash. Whether they are in work environments or family settings, they do not hesitate to set boundaries and protect them.

5 Zodiac Signs You Don't Mess With

You’ve been seeing someone for a while, but you’re not sure where you stand. Are you ‘dating,’ ‘exclusive,’ or something else entirely? Gone are the days of simply being ‘boyfriend’ and ‘girlfriend.’ Today’s relationships come with a wide vocabulary, all their own!

12 Labels in Relationships Other Than Being “In a Relationship”

Some parents think that raising their children to be resilient means trying to instill confidence in them. They think that the way to do this is to say after everything their child does: “Good job, Buddy!”. Other parents, often Dads, (sorry, Dads) think that raising resilient children means telling...

Three Characteristics of Resilient People

People seek interactions with others for various payoffs, like physical stimulation and emotional recognition. Ideally, they seek those payoffs openly and honestly, developing real intimacy with a partner. If they have negative beliefs about themselves or others, though, they cannot trust and so play games instead. Why do people lie,...

Why People Manipulate and Play Games in Relationships

How you approach a relationship fix is critical to the outcome. Expecting too much will result in getting less. Your love relationship is struggling, but you are not ready for couples therapy just yet. How to proceed? The transformation required for a relationship to become rewarding is, of course, neither simple nor instant. There is not one dramatic issue to be repaired, but a series of little separations that, over time, like termites, have eaten away at the emotional connection.

How to Fix a Relationship

Caregiving is often viewed as a noble and selfless act, a testament to an immense strength of love and commitment. However, the emotional and physical toll it takes on romantic relationships is a reality many couples face in silence. Whether you’re a parent caring for young children, an adult child...

How Caregiving Can Damage Romantic Relationships

Seniors have a disproportionately high rate of suicide, largely due to social isolation and depression. Increasing numbers of seniors misuse prescriptions and use alcohol and cannabis to cope with chronic pain. Cannabis may increase risks for drug interactions, falls, and depression. Life today for a person aged 65 years or...

Problems in the Golden Years—Longevity Versus Reality

In the dark and starry cosmic realm of astrology, some of the zodiac signs have an inflated sense of their intellect. Intelligence is a highly favored trait and these signs can often perceive themselves as the smartest people in the room. These signs can sometimes let their intellectual pride get the better of them. Tag along with us as we delve into the three zodiac signs renowned for their self-professed intelligence.

3 Zodiac Signs Who Think They're Smart

Emotions are bodily signals, like pain or hunger, alerting you to what's important in your life. Emotional responses are directly linked to values. Decoding emotions and identifying the values they're pointing towards provides guidance. Taking steps towards living those values increases your sense of balance and well-being. “You just need...

It’s Not Enough to Feel Your Feelings

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The color yellow is gorgeous, eye-catching, and downright happy for most people. So much so that it's the main hue in the world-famous happy face—but science says it's not the best color to wear on a date.

You Shouldn't Wear Yellow on First Dates, Here's Why

Staying friends after a breakup may seem like a good idea and is often floated as a way to lessen the blow. However, actually cultivating a friendship with an ex might not be healthy or desirable. Unresolved feelings, new romantic partners, and the ugliness of the breakup are all factors...

Signs That Exes Can't Be Friends—And Signs That They Can

True intimacy creates deep connections, making us feel understood, valued, and loved. Intimacy isn't just romantic; there are five essential types for fulfilling relationships. Discover your intimacy blocks and how to overcome them in order to improve your relationships. Imagine feeling deeply connected to the people in your life, knowing...

The 5 Types of Intimacy You Need to Know

Mental health workers are helping displaced children worldwide who are traumatized and experiencing PTSD. It's important to help children build resilience and to see adults demonstrate fairness and flexibility. Fostering individual and community resilience lays a foundation for sustainable recovery. Scenes of damaged buildings and infrastructure stream from conflicts in...

Finding a Safe Space for the Displaced

At Goethe University in Frankfurt, Germany, a study was conducted to determine if students' clothing could indicate their area of study. If it were possible to recognize a course by its clothing, we could say that cultures have developed around clothing. We photographed students from four different study programs. We then presented these photos to other students (290 people). They were then asked for their opinion as to which course the people in the photos belonged to. This approach is simpler than classifying clothing by counting how often certain types of trainers are worn, for example. The students were asked to identify whether they were studying chemistry, biology, economics, or law.

Student Dressing Habits: The Influence of Super Weak Ties

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The Scituate Animal Shelter of Massachusetts recently introduced an adorable dog named Daisy, a gentle and loving little lady who has sadly lost her beloved owner and is now looking for a new loving home. This 7-year-old, 22 lb dog, has been described by the Scituate Animal Shelter of Massachusetts as "100% an absolute delight."

Meet The Happy Little Dog Who Lost Her Owner Now Looking For Love

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Why Idaho Ranks in the Top 10 States Americans Are Flocking To in 2024. A lot of Idahoans are saying 'Idaho is FULL! Go find somewhere else to live!'. With that said, MANY people and their families are flocking to this state and calling it home.

Why Is Everyone Relocating To Idaho?

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Marriage is often seen as a journey of mutual support, love, and understanding. However, this journey can sometimes be marred by subtle behaviors that, over time, may drive a wedge between partners.

Subtle, Yet Destructive Behaviors That Erode a Marriage and Their Impact

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5 Game-Changing Strategies for Neurodivergent Couples

When neurodivergent couples seek psychotherapy, it's important to find a neurodiversity-affirming provider. Research suggests that ADHDers are three times more likely to experience divorce than neurotypical...

5 Game-Changing Strategies for Neurodivergent Couples

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