We all have that one friend who keeps us guessing about where we stand with them. No matter how much we try to include them in our plans, share our thoughts or just be a good friend to them, our efforts always seem to fall flat. And when we try to talk to them about it, we often end up feeling even more confused.

3 Ways to Spot a Bad Friend From How They Speak to You

When someone you’re close to commits a moral infraction, particularly one involving you, it's upsetting. New research shows what leads a wrongdoer to receive condemnation from those observing their behavior. Keeping it honest is the best way to build a relationship, especially when it comes to admitting you're wrong.

What to Do When Someone Lets You Down

Display an unsettling cruelty that is unprovoked and sadistic. In numerous studies, people with a higher level of psychopathic traits display a reduced aversiveness to negative or fear-based images and stimuli. According to other research, they also show more activation in parts of the brain related to empathy for themselves when imagining themselves experiencing pain and show little activation in parts of the brain indicating empathy for others when envisioning other people enduring painful scenarios. Psychopathic people also display activation in parts of the brain related to reward when envisioning other people in pain, and psychologists suggest this may be an indication that they gain sadistic pleasure from inflicting pain on others. This can play out in different ways during the relationship. Sometimes a psychopathic partner can issue cruel, degrading insults that have nothing to do with the true nature of the person they’re in a relationship with. For example, they may tell their supermodel wife that she is gaining weight to instill insecurity and ensure she doesn’t look elsewhere for a better partner or tell their successful lawyer husband that they’re a “loser” to incentivize him to bring in more profits to leech off of. This acts as a way to maintain power and control over their partner while also belittling their partners for their own enjoyment.

4 Things Psychopaths Do In Romantic Relationships (That Empathic People Never Do)

The issue is not the amount of time we have, but more our relationship with that time. Understanding how we spend our time, setting boundaries, and enjoying the present moment is essential. There are exercises and practices we all can do to transform our relationship with time. Time is a...

A Healthy Relationship With Time Means a Fulfilling Life

Women now cheat at rates near similar to men. Women often explain their infidelity as a result of a dissatisfying primary relationship. Only about 7 percent of women say they cheated because of how they felt about their affair partner. Why do women cheat? For affection? For revenge?. In most...

When Women Cheat, It's Usually for These 10 Reasons

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There were a number of celebrities who passed away within the past week, including two notable actresses: Shelley Duvall and Shannen Doherty. Shelley Duvall passed away on Thursday July 11th at her home in Blanco, Texas. The cause of death was complications from diabetes and news of her death was confirmed by her partner Dan Gilroy.

Two Beloved Hollywood Actresses Have Passed Away This Week

A relationship expert shares what he’s learned from years of observing couples. Anyone who gets married goes into it expecting a long-lasting union, but as we all know, many of them will turn out to be wrong. In fact, about 43% of first marriages in the U.S. end in divorce — and if you ask renowned psychotherapist John Gottman, the writing is probably on the wall from early on.

6 Signs That Your Marriage Is Headed For Divorce

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Cheating, in any form, strikes at the heart of trust and security in a relationship. Whether it's a clandestine affair or a deep emotional bond with someone outside the relationship, the pain inflicted can be profound.

Emotional Cheating vs. Physical Cheating: Which Hurts More?

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Swinger parties can be an exciting and novel way for couples to explore their sexuality together. However, attending such events requires careful consideration and mutual respect to ensure that it doesn’t negatively impact your relationship. Here’s how you can attend a swinger party without ruining your marriage. Communication...

How to attend a swinger party without ruining your marriage

Relationships are a two-way street in all aspects. While partners do cover for each other every now and then, there still needs to be a certain level of balance. Over the past few decades, the institution of marriage in the United States has seen a significant decline of about 60% since the 1970s, reports CNBC. While there are various factors contributing to this trend, content creator Katie Hanlon—who goes by @thekatiehanlon on TikTok—has mentioned some less-discussed yet crucial factors that can often lead to relationship breakdowns.

Woman explains how marriages are ending because of the inability of men to talk about emotions

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Yesterday was the third time this year that an ad stating Chelsea Clinton lives in a beautiful Virginia home popped up on my laptop. My computer did not warn me this was a dangerous site, so this time, I clicked on the link.

Chelsea Clinton is rumored to be living in Virginia but probably still in NYC

Infidelity is not just a physical act but a breach of emotional commitment. Spending money foolishly can lead to resentment, stress, and, ultimately, marital breakdown. Jealousy can suffocate intimacy and erode the emotional connection between partners. A classic 1997 study published in the Journal of Marriage and Family analyzed over...

The 6 Leading Causes of Divorce

They are disturbing, stressful and distressing. Everyone experiences intrusive thoughts from time to time. What you can do to reduce them and when to get help. Do you ever find yourself daydreaming or distracted and your thoughts turn negative? You try to push away the upsetting thoughts, but it’s difficult, or even impossible. Those are intrusive thoughts. They are unwanted and involuntary thoughts or images that pop into our minds and become disturbing, stressful, or distressing. They come in a wide variety of unpleasant topics, commonly self-doubt, or some catastrophic outcome, health or financial.

How to Stop Your Intrusive Thoughts

Editor's note: This article was originally published on November 9, 2022. It has since been updated. Romantic relationships are complex and hard to navigate for all age groups. Sharing your life with another person can be a challenging task and often leads to misunderstandings and arguments if those involved aren't equipped to handle hurdles in a productive manner. Fortunately, some early signs during the courtship and dating phase can give you an indication of whether the outcome will be positive if you choose to be in a relationship with your love interest. These signs are often divided into two categories: red flags and green flags. Red flags, as the name suggests, are warning signs of a person's problematic and unhealthy patterns whereas green flags indicate that the person is someone with whom you can build a healthy and fulfilling partnership.

Psychologist explains green flags in relationships that many mistakes for red flags and it's eye-opening

Physiological aging is characterized by changes in the biological structure and function of our body. The way we perceive age is influenced by our personal experiences and stage of life. Social and cultural factors have a strong influence on our attitudes towards aging. In the wake of President Biden’s decision...

Facing and Feeling Your Age

Infidelity is one of the most challenging issues a relationship can face. The discovery of a partner’s betrayal can shatter trust, cause immense emotional pain, and leave both parties feeling lost and uncertain about the future. However, many couples do find a way to recover and even strengthen their relationship after such a breach of trust. This article explores how couples can bounce back after infidelity, the steps involved in the healing process, and the factors contributing to rebuilding a healthier, more resilient relationship.

How couples bounce back after infidelity

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Life doesn't end at 50, and we enjoy greater longevity than ever before. Those who find themselves alone will naturally seek companionship. However, a less committed type of relationship is growing in popularity.

Love Relationships After 50: Situationships on the Rise

Psychological abuse can be as damaging as physical harm, yet it often goes unnoticed. This type of abuse involves manipulating someone's emotions, leading to long-term mental health issues. Victims might feel isolated, worthless, or constantly anxious. Abusers use tactics like gaslighting, where they make the victim doubt their reality, or silent treatment, which creates a sense of abandonment. Recognizing these signs is crucial for anyone who suspects they or someone they know might be experiencing this form of abuse. Understanding psychological abuse helps in taking steps to protect oneself and seek help. Let's uncover 13 essential facts about psychological abuse to raise awareness and support those affected.

13 Facts About Psychological Abuse

Dark empaths present a unique challenge in relationships. They combine empathy with dark traits like narcissism or Machiavellianism, using their understanding of others' emotions to manipulate and control.

Protect Yourself from the Emotional Manipulation of a Dark Empath

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Jessica Serfitay flips the script on her previous statement. Virginia soap fans, Soap Opera News reports that Jessica Serfitay (ex Sloan Petersen) on Days of Our Lives posted on social media that her billionaire fiancé had abused her. The actress now says they argued as families do, and she never should have posted anything.

Days of Our Lives alum Jessica Serfitay retracts her statement that her fiance abused her

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Why Our Worst Breakups May Keep Haunting Us

Many people get stuck and can’t move on from the “big one.” They keep playing it back, over and over. They can’t show up as their...

Why Our Worst Breakups May Keep Haunting Us

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