Sometimes you just need a narcissist to get off your back and back the heck up from trying to play or mess with you. Here are some handy phrases that may help when a narcissist is deliberately trying to confuse or disorient you. “What did you mean by that?”. Say...

5 Phrases To Get Narcissists and Toxic People To Back Off

They are kind to you if you can do something for them or hold some form of power over them. They are cruel and underhanded to the people they’re envious of. People often assume that just because someone is kind to them that they can’t behave differently to other people. This is one of the most dangerous fallacies to engage in when it comes to narcissistic and psychopathic people. A female narcissist or psychopath isn’t going to show their true nature to their employer or friends they need to keep in their corner or a date they’re love bombing (at least not yet). Who will they show their true character to? The people they most envy and feel threatened by. Those are the people they try to undermine, sabotage, and bully behind closed doors. That is why you may have a female narcissist who behaves with seeming kindness toward the colleagues, friends, or lovers who don’t threaten them (or hold power over them), only to target the person who they are envious of by trying to interfere with their work, spread rumors, or pit them against other friends (also known as relational aggression). If you are told by their victims that they have engaged in covert bullying behaviors and the victim is someone who is empathic and trustworthy and has strengths and abilities that make them a target for such envy, recognize you may be getting the inside scoop on the narcissist’s true character, not their mask. These types tend to be a liability in the workplace, friendships, and romantic relationships, engaging in numerous unethical violations and putting friends, lovers, and businesses at risk. The most trustworthy people are actually those who are not necessarily saccharine sweet to everyone and treat them accordingly based on their own character rather than a personal agenda, and it is usually the empathic, authentic, and most talented people who become targets of such manipulators.

6 Subtle Red Flags of Envious Female Narcissists (That People Often Miss)

Some think that to be envied is an honor, but when someone you love envies you, it can be devastating. One of the nine traits listed in the DSM-5 (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) for narcissistic personality disorder is "often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her.”

The Narcissist’s Envy

In a world teeming with labels, it's easy to overlook their profound impact on our lives. From the playground to the boardroom, we categorize and define ourselves and others with a few simple words. But have you ever paused to consider the hidden power of these labels? Beyond mere descriptions, they can shape our beliefs, influence our behavior, and even determine the course of our lives. In this exploration, we'll unravel the intricate psychology of labeling, delve into its societal consequences, and discover how embracing compassion and self-awareness can liberate us from the label trap.

From Judgment to Joy: Embrace Self-Compassion

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When my friends and I finally met up recently, the topic of our conversation quickly turned to the scarcity of good men available for dating. When I asked Alicia what she meant by “good men,” she listed qualities like intelligence, a sense of humor, a fit physique, good grooming, and independence. While these traits are certainly desirable, a healthy relationship is built on more profound attributes like honesty, trust, and communication.

The 5 Things a Good Man Will Never Do in a Relationship

What comes to mind when you think of the word "gaslighting?" Perhaps you picture a character from a movie or TV show, like Patrick Bateman in American Psycho or Norma Bates in Psycho. While gaslighting is often depicted in entertainment, it’s not always easy to identify in real life.

5 Common Gaslighting Phrases People Use to Manipulate Others

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Understanding the Reasons Why Women Lose Respect for Men. Respect forms the backbone of any healthy relationship. When it starts to wane, the entire relationship can suffer. In a recent article, I wrote about what makes men lose respect for women. While we can say that these behaviors would cause someone of any gender to lose respect, the differences are interesting.

What Makes a Woman Lose Respect for a Man?

Winning an argument is about reaching a resolution that respects both sides. The phrase "part of me" acknowledges the complexity of the issue and shows empathy. Showing you're willing to consider an alternate viewpoint makes others more receptive to your arguments. Arguments are a part of life, and navigating them...

3 Words to Win Any Argument

Infidelity is not merely a physical act but a breach of emotional commitment. Spending money foolishly can lead to resentment, stress, and, ultimately, marital breakdown. Jealousy can suffocate intimacy and erode the emotional connection between partners. A classic 1997 study published in the Journal of Marriage and Family analyzed over...

The 6 Leading Causes of Divorce

Before confronting a partner you suspect of lying, it's crucial to step back and gather your thoughts. Use "I" statements to communicate how their actions have affected you. Don't be afraid to leave a situation that no longer serves your well-being. Discovering that your lover might be lying to you...

3 Things to Do When Your Partner is Lying to You

While each decade has its own television shows that leave a mark, the 1980s was full of some truly great comedy television. It was the era when we first met Michael J. Fox as Alex P. Keaton on Family Ties. We met the Tanners on Full House and the Seavers on Growing Pains. Then, there was Cheers, The Golden Girls, The Cosby Show, Family Matters, and Silver Spoons. And we can’t forget about iconic shows like Miami Vice, Roseanne, Murder, She Wrote, and Unsolved Mysteries.

Beloved Child Actor, 46, Found Dead Alongside Service Dog

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Prior to her death, the "Beverly Hills, 90210" alum said that "there's a lot of people that I think would show up that I don't want there."

Shannen Doherty Left List Of People She Didn't Want At Her Funeral

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As questions swirl about the would-be assassin who shot former President Donald Trump at a Pennsylvania campaign rally on Saturday, the shooter’s family is also struggling to make sense of what happened. The FBI identified the gunman as 20-year-old Thomas Matthew Crooks, who lived with his parents in the...

‘I don’t know what to say’: Family of Thomas Matthew Crooks struggles to make sense of Trump shooting

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Feeling left out at work? Decode the 15 signals that could indicate your coworkers aren't exactly fond of you.

15 Signs That Your Coworkers Don’t Like You

The daughter of Cameroon's president has said she hopes that her coming out as a lesbian can help change the law banning same-sex relations in her country. Brenda Biya told the Le Parisien newspaper that there were many people in her situation and she hoped to inspire them. The 27-year-old...

President's daughter hopes coming out will change anti-gay laws

Navigating humor in the workplace can be tricky. The same joke can leave one person in stitches while causing another to cringe. This complexity is magnified when it’s your boss attempting humor, as any awkward or inappropriate jokes can strain professional relationships and create discomfort.

The Surprising Science Why Your Boss's Jokes Are Intolerable

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The longtime Oak Ridge Boys singer died on July 9 following a four-year battle with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS).

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Relationships have a lot of close calls and false ends. Here’s how to tell those apart from a final separation. There are lots of instances where a relationship has a false end or temporary separation. For this reason, I’ve spent a lot of time trying to recognize the signs that a relationship is actually ending. Here are the indicators that it’s really done: 1) no anger, 2) logical reason, 3) repeated attempt, 4) mutual decision, and 5) the feeling.

Opinion: The 5 Signs That a Relationship Is Actually Over

Is there a foolproof method to tell when someone is lying? The answer is yes. Whether in private life or at work, it’s important to understand if the person in front of us is telling lies or being sincere. To detect when someone is lying, we can rely on...

6 Signs to Understand When Someone Is Lying

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5 Ways to Tell a Narcissist Is Playing the Victim

A narcissist plays the victim to manipulate you. Being aware of these maneuvers will allow you to prevent yourself from being manipulated. An awareness of these...

5 Ways to Tell a Narcissist Is Playing the Victim

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