Columbus, OH

Only 10% of the hundreds of couples I’ve treated in Couples Counseling were willing and able to develop emotional intimacy. Most people find it to be too messy. One operational definition of emotional intimacy might be the unity created by two committed and unique individuals. The messy challenge is to honor your individuality while attending to the couple's unity. Let’s look at four levels of messiness and how to clean them up.

Challenges of Emotional Intimacy

No new relationship, no matter how wonderful, can or should fix something it didn’t break. It is natural to seek what feels familiar to you, but it's not necessarily what's good for you to repeat. New relationships can be blinding, leading both partners to only focus on what works.

Can New Love Heal a Past Heartbreak?

In episodic intimacy, the participants do not typically engage in conflict. Committed intimacy offers an opportunity for growth, relational skill-building, and creating a bond. Relationships might reflect a bit from each paradigm. There are at least two expressions of emotional intimacy, with one gaining increasing popularity. Episodic intimacy is becoming...

Episodic Intimacy vs. Committed Intimacy

People seek interactions with others for various payoffs, like physical stimulation and emotional recognition. Ideally, they seek those payoffs openly and honestly, developing real intimacy with a partner. If they have negative beliefs about themselves or others, though, they cannot trust and so play games instead. Why do people lie,...

Why People Manipulate and Play Games in Relationships

I was married at the time. My father-in-law was driving me and my then wife, his daughter, to the airport. She had been telling a story in the car about how difficult high school had been. After hearing the story, my father-in-law started to cry. He had no idea she had been bullied. He thought she had had a great high school experience. I remember seeing the tears stream down his face, the hurt and empathy in his eyes.

Don't Hide: The Importance of Practicing Vulnerability

Is there a foolproof method to tell when someone is lying? The answer is yes. Whether in private life or at work, it’s important to understand if the person in front of us is telling lies or being sincere. To detect when someone is lying, we can rely on...

6 Signs to Understand When Someone Is Lying

Writers represent independent, third-party users who have joined our contributor program and self-verified their accounts. Writers are expected, like all users, to adhere to our Community Standards.

writer

Shin

Understanding human behavior is essential for building trust and protecting oneself from potential harm. Recognizing subtle signs of a person's true character can save you from emotional distress and help you invest wisely in relationships and professional partnerships. Here are four insightful signs to help you discern a person’s true character based on research in psychology.

3 Subtle Clues That Reveal Someone’s True Character

Elder women are at risk of being cheated on dating sites. The suitor's profiles and photos are created and maintained by scammers. Block the scammer and start looking for a normal person. Sorry to break it to you, but that guy you met online, the one you fell in love...

To Elder Women Seeking Men on Dating Sites, Beware

Communication with teens can be challenging. And receiving any sign of affection can also sometimes feel impossible, particularly after you say “I love you” to them, and you are met with just an aloof “K.”. There’s a new way teens are communicating with their parents and loved...

What Is ‘Pebbling’ and Why Are Teens Doing It?

We achieve in a desperate attempt to create a legacy that outlives our lifespan. Even hobbies can add purpose and meaning to one's life. Practicing gratitude can keep you grounded on what matters most: the present moment. It’s inevitable. You will die. Regardless of how much you accomplish in...

Facing the Fear of Death

Kratom, a drug sold at U.S. gas stations and on the internet, has some serious risks and has caused deaths. Kratom alkaloids differ from heroin as they have opioid plus serotonergic, adrenergic, and other effects. Scientists are trying to separate the constituents of Mitragyna speciosa Korth leaves to find new...

What We Know About Kratom

Ghosting is thought of in terms of romantic relationships, but new research shows it happens at work, too. New research shows that Dark Triad traits, especially psychopathy, may feed into a new type of ghosting. By reading the signals of a potential new relationship partner, you can help keep ghosting’s...

The Strange Ghosting Behavior of Dark Triad People

Lancaster County, PA

Community Voices represent independent, third-party users who have joined our contributor program but not yet verified their accounts. Community Voices are expected, like all users, to adhere to our Community Standards.

community_voice

NewsByJoshua

Fans of Frisco's Chicken were left reeling as the beloved Peruvian-style eatery announced the closure of all its locations in Lancaster County, Pennsylvania. The chain, known for its delicious food and strong community values, posted a heartfelt note on its doors, informing customers of the devastating news.

Favorite Chicken Chain Suddenly Closes All Stores, Heartfelt Message Found on Doors

Total Apex Sports & Entertainment

There are certain zodiac signs that most people are careful with because of their fiery and low tolerance levels. You can hardly mess with individuals with such signs without getting a backlash. Whether they are in work environments or family settings, they do not hesitate to set boundaries and protect them.

5 Zodiac Signs You Don't Mess With

BuzzFeed

Unfortunately, it wasn't a "happily ever after" after all.

People Are Sharing Their Stories Of How "The One" Turned Into "The Ex," And It's Honestly Scary To See How Some People Change Up

K.D. Lewis

Navigating the emotional landscape of a budding relationship can be challenging, especially when you're unsure of where you stand with the other person. Understanding the signs of emotional confusion in men can help you gain clarity and make informed decisions about your relationship.

Signs of Emotional Confusion in Men

True intimacy creates deep connections, making us feel understood, valued, and loved. Intimacy isn't just romantic; there are five essential types for fulfilling relationships. Discover your intimacy blocks and how to overcome them in order to improve your relationships. Imagine feeling deeply connected to the people in your life, knowing...

The 5 Types of Intimacy You Need to Know

New York City, NY

Cheryl E Preston

Yesterday was the third time this year that an ad stating Chelsea Clinton lives in a beautiful Virginia home popped up on my laptop. My computer did not warn me this was a dangerous site, so this time, I clicked on the link.

Chelsea Clinton is rumored to be living in Virginia but probably still in NYC

FinanceBuzz

Is your job at risk? Learn to read between the lines with these 15 subtle indicators that your company might be planning to part ways with you.

15 Little Signs Your Company Is Planning To Let You Go

Relationships require effort, understanding, and a willingness to grow together. Despite best intentions, certain behaviors can undermine the strongest bonds. Let's delve into common relationship-damaging behaviors and how to avoid them.

Don’t Get Dumped! Common Behaviors That Ruin Relationships

NewsBreak

Breaking Down Our Messages

A double bind describes a situation in which a person receives conflicting messages. There may be times when your body language doesn’t quite seem to align...

Breaking Down Our Messages

Comments / 0