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Marriage is a big step in a relationship. It's something that people think about from the time they can grasp the concept of relationships. When you factor that in with the high divorce rate, it makes sense that people want to make sure they're getting it right before they take the leap.Typically people ask their close inner circle relationship advice. Leaning on people like their parents, siblings or friends who have been married to fill in the gaps of knowledge. But with the world being smaller than ever due to social media, it takes little effort to gather more collective knowledge from thousands of people from your target audience. Surprisingly, people are pretty forthcoming to strangers on the internet looking for support and help. One man who goes by the name King Boiza decided to ask his internet advisors, "married men what is your greatest regret about marriage? Advise the single boys. It could be about anything." They married men didn't hesitate to answer the call in the most genuinely wholesome way.

Single man asks married men their biggest marriage regret and they don't disappoint

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"When friendships are severed, intentionally or by avoidance, everyone loses," writes Myisha Battle.

Yes, It's OK to Stay Friends With Your Ex's Friends

Romantic stories often involve people searching for “the one” or their “soulmate” who they fall in love with at first sight because their relationship was just “meant to be.” From a young age, we are sold the idea that the name of the person we’re destined to marry is “written in the stars” and that all we have to do is keep our eyes open and one day, they’ll cross our path.
Then, the only thing left to do is live happily ever after.
However, those who are skeptical about soulmates believe that relationships require work. These people think nothing is meant to be without hard work, couples therapy, and a little luck; even Cinderella and Prince Charming shouldn’t depend on living happily ever after.
So, the question remains: Which relationships end up being more successful? Couples who believe they were “destined” to be together or those who think that “love grows with effort”? Researchers recently studied the topic and published the results in the European Journal of Personality.

Sorry soulmates, here's some tough news for couples who think they're made for each other

Crushes—those fluttery feelings of infatuation toward someone who isn’t your partner—are a common experience for many people, even when they are in committed relationships. These feelings can be directed toward peers, coworkers, friends, or even strangers, such as celebrities. But what do these feelings really mean? Are they harmless daydreams or potential threats to the stability of your relationship?

Are Crushes Allowed if You're Already in a Relationship?

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You should go to therapy,” my sister told me, as I paused to take a breath after regurgitating a story about how I was feeling sadly unaligned with an old friend.I reminded her that I was already in therapy, but would make sure to bring up this specific subject during our next session. “No,” she shook her head. “You should go to therapy with her... like couples therapy, but for friendship.”During the silence that followed, she added: “It’s a thing now.”I was intrigued by the concept; it felt both alien and simultaneously totally reasonable. We all have friendships that have fizzled out, whether we’ve grown apart, built...

Meet the former friends having therapy to recover their relationship

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There were a number of celebrities who passed away within the past week, including two notable actresses: Shelley Duvall and Shannen Doherty. Shelley Duvall passed away on Thursday July 11th at her home in Blanco, Texas. The cause of death was complications from diabetes and news of her death was confirmed by her partner Dan Gilroy.

Two Beloved Hollywood Actresses Have Passed Away This Week

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Yesterday was the third time this year that an ad stating Chelsea Clinton lives in a beautiful Virginia home popped up on my laptop. My computer did not warn me this was a dangerous site, so this time, I clicked on the link.

Chelsea Clinton is rumored to be living in Virginia but probably still in NYC

Infidelity is not just a physical act but a breach of emotional commitment. Spending money foolishly can lead to resentment, stress, and, ultimately, marital breakdown. Jealousy can suffocate intimacy and erode the emotional connection between partners. A classic 1997 study published in the Journal of Marriage and Family analyzed over...

The 6 Leading Causes of Divorce

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Infidelity is a painful and complex issue that many couples face. Understanding why it happens is crucial for addressing and potentially preventing it. Cheating can shatter trust, break hearts and disrupt families, leading to long-term emotional and psychological consequences. While every situation is unique, certain patterns and reasons frequently emerge when examining why married people cheat. In this article, we will delve into the five most common reasons spouses cheat, shedding light on the underlying factors that drive infidelity.

5 common reasons married people cheat

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When my friends and I finally met up recently, the topic of our conversation quickly turned to the scarcity of good men available for dating. When I asked Alicia what she meant by “good men,” she listed qualities like intelligence, a sense of humor, a fit physique, good grooming, and independence. While these traits are certainly desirable, a healthy relationship is built on more profound attributes like honesty, trust, and communication.

The 5 Things a Good Man Will Never Do in a Relationship

Relationships are a two-way street in all aspects. While partners do cover for each other every now and then, there still needs to be a certain level of balance. Over the past few decades, the institution of marriage in the United States has seen a significant decline of about 60% since the 1970s, reports CNBC. While there are various factors contributing to this trend, content creator Katie Hanlon—who goes by @thekatiehanlon on TikTok—has mentioned some less-discussed yet crucial factors that can often lead to relationship breakdowns.

Woman explains how marriages are ending because of the inability of men to talk about emotions

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Quick Personality Analysis: The Way You Hold Your Phone Reveals Hidden Traits of Your Personality

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Kim Kardashian and Kanye West are two of the biggest celebrities in modern times. While much of the happenings between the two involved their marriage and divorce, there are bigger things for them to focus on. Most notably their children.

Kim Kardashian and Kanye West’s Son Diagnosed With Rare Skin Condition

A relationship expert shares what he’s learned from years of observing couples. Anyone who gets married goes into it expecting a long-lasting union, but as we all know, many of them will turn out to be wrong. In fact, about 43% of first marriages in the U.S. end in divorce — and if you ask renowned psychotherapist John Gottman, the writing is probably on the wall from early on.

6 Signs That Your Marriage Is Headed For Divorce

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90 Day Fiance star, Michael Ilesanmi, has some new relationships since his split from Angela Deem. Fans have mixed emotions about Michael’s intentions when coming to the United States. However, he has been making the best out of his situation and seems to have formed some new connections with people since moving. Keep reading to find out more about this.

’90 Day Fiance’ Michael Ilesanmi Has New Relationships After Split

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Cheating, in any form, strikes at the heart of trust and security in a relationship. Whether it's a clandestine affair or a deep emotional bond with someone outside the relationship, the pain inflicted can be profound.

Emotional Cheating vs. Physical Cheating: Which Hurts More?

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We recently asked married men of the BuzzFeed Community to tell us the hardest parts of marriage that no one talks about. Here’s what they had to say:. 1. “Twenty-five years married here. The person you marry is going to change in each season of life, and you have to abandon your own selfishness and put in an effort to fall in love with them anew each time...and to help them find new ways to fall in love with you as you change, too. It’s super hard because you’re going to miss the person they used to be (before kids, before menopause, etc.), but if you put in the work and keep an open mind, you’ll probably like the new them a lot, too.”

Married Men Are Revealing The 'Hardest Parts' Of Marriage That No One Talks About

Divorce is a significant life event that brings with it a mix of emotions and challenges. While the end of a marriage might seem like an opportunity to start anew, diving back into the dating scene too quickly can have its pitfalls. Taking the time to heal and reflect before embarking on a new romantic journey is crucial for several reasons.

Why dating after divorce should be taken slowly

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Nicole Walker (Ari Zucker) has less than a week to leave Salem once her final Days of Our Lives scene airs. A promo for next week shows EJ DiMera (Dan Feuerrigel) asking Eric Brady (Greg Vaughan) if Holly Jonas (Ashley Puzemis) knows her stepdad killed her bio dad Daniel Jonas (Shawn Christian).

Days of Our Lives Spoilers: EJ possibly blackmails Nicole into leaving Salem

Unless you’ve fallen out of a coconut tree, you’ve heard of Brat Green. While pop queen Charli XCX dropped her most recent album, Brat, on June 7, in the weeks since, the electric shade of green has filled feeds everywhere. In most recent events, the color transcended pop culture fodder and made political news headlines when, upon Joe Biden’s withdrawal as the Democratic nominee and endorsement of Kamala Harris, the British singer-songwriter took to X (formerly Twitter) to declare: “Kamala IS brat.” Harris’ campaign subsequently hopped on the train by adopting a banner featuring the same color and font as the Brat album cover for the KamalaHQ account.

It’s A Brat Green Summer: What’s The Appeal Of The Hue?

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Our Breakup Was Amicable, So Why Couldn’t I Stay Friends With My Ex?

“We still think the absolute world of each other, we still care and respect each other… we are still friends and will always be friends…” reads...

Our Breakup Was Amicable, So Why Couldn’t I Stay Friends With My Ex?

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