Get updates delivered to you daily. Free and customizable.
New York Post
I’m in my 40s and never worked — how do I start?
By Greg Giangrande,
6 hours ago
I’m in my 40s and I’ve never had to work. Ever. My parents have funded me all this time and were happy to do it, but now they are aged and the money is running out. I have a degree but all my skills are way out of date. Where should I start?
Listen, Hunter, you knew this day was coming, right? (Hey — couldn’t resist.) Seriously, your parents may have been trying to help but actually did more harm than good.
Hopefully, you’ve been volunteering at least, doing some charity work perhaps? Something that can transfer to a real paying job? If not, then I’d consider going back to school — get a trade degree or certification perhaps. Skilled workers are hard to find and in high demand. It’s never too late to launch.
I’d like to reach out to a previous internship boss to rekindle things. I was offered a full-time position last year but I took another opportunity instead. Now I’m regretting it. Is it OK to send an email? What should I say?
It’s a great idea, although I wouldn’t necessarily make your case in writing. See if you can get your former boss on the phone and then make your best sales pitch live.
It’s much more impactful that way. Don’t complain about the job you took — just explain why you regret not taking the job that was offered, what you’ve learned and how you appreciate so much more the opportunity you had. If you can’t get your boss on the phone, then yes, make that same pitch in writing.
I’ve been told I’m generally a good worker but not a “team player.” What does that even mean? I’m friendly and outgoing with everyone. I don’t know what I could be doing wrong.
Well, one thing you’re doing wrong is not asking for clarification from the person who said you’re not a team player. But being friendly and outgoing with everyone doesn’t automatically make you a team player.
I’ve come across lots of executives who are also friendly and outgoing but start everything with “I” instead of “we.” Team players know there is no “I” in team. They collaborate, have each other‘s back and give credit to others.
Get updates delivered to you daily. Free and customizable.
Welcome to NewsBreak, an open platform where diverse perspectives converge. Most of our content comes from established publications and journalists, as well as from our extensive network of tens of thousands of creators who contribute to our platform. We empower individuals to share insightful viewpoints through short posts and comments. It’s essential to note our commitment to transparency: our Terms of Use acknowledge that our services may not always be error-free, and our Community Standards emphasize our discretion in enforcing policies. We strive to foster a dynamic environment for free expression and robust discourse through safety guardrails of human and AI moderation. Join us in shaping the news narrative together.
Comments / 0