Why Jennifer Aydin Is Wrong To Pick on the Husbands

Is anyone else so over Jennifer Aydin’s bad attitude when it comes to Real Housewives of New Jersey husbands? At first, I genuinely thought the Paramus native was funny. Jennifer was spot-on at impersonating her fellow co-stars. And she also seemed like she could take a joke pretty well. But as the seasons wore on, I kept getting whiffs of mean girls. It all became clear when she teamed up as Teresa Giudice’s sidekick, but I held out hope even then.

What truly stopped me from being a Jen fan is how she treats others within the Garden State group. While she isn’t exactly the nicest to the women she hangs out with, she is extra hard on their spouses. It doesn’t seem fair to keep choosing to battle the men when, for the most part, the husbands stay out of the drama.

Jennifer Aydin vs. the husbands

Jen has a funny way of going after the men. And it seems her favorite insult is “bitch boy.” During the Season 13 Real Housewives of New Jersey reunion, Joe Gorga and Jen got into a war of words. Hands were flying, and loose lips definitely sunk a few ships. After being told to jog on by Joe, Jen yelled, “Right back at ya, b*tch girl!” The mother of five claimed she was just defending herself because he had “air slapped” her. I mean, that isn’t even a real thing, Jen.

The argument continued with Joe using the term “honey,” which reignited Jen’s fury. The Turkish princess noted, “Your behavior that night was a little b*tch boy. You’re always involved.” Jen even taught the term to Tre, who added, “B*tch boy, sorry, Joe. You’re kinda like a housewife.”

Sadly, Jen has also targeted Nate Cabral in the most recent RHONJ episode. Even though fans have learned that Nate survived a life-or-death experience a few years ago, Jen’s heart seems to be frozen shut to empathy. And because she is on the outs with Danielle Cabral , the home security owner is in the line of fire. Jen told Bill Aydin , “I think Nate is a little b*tch boy, actually.” Not cool, Jen.

Could Jennifer Aydin be considered a bully?

According to Miriam Webster, a bully is a “person who habitually seeks to harm or intimidate those whom they perceive as vulnerable.” Now, if it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it is probably a duck. Jennifer’s behavior has become so unruly that it is hard to watch. The drama has turned toxic, and instead of bonding moments, she is causing the hate to spread among the cast. With Tre’s recent post about anti-bullying, it doesn’t seem like Jen has gotten the message.

As a longtime fan of the franchise, I can say that Jen goes low. This housewife fights particularly dirty, which often strikes me as odd because she just contradicts herself. Jen is against Margaret Josephs digging up dirt on people, but it has been alleged that she and Tre have been feeding stories to blogs. Even though Jennifer can be funny at moments, her sharp tongue often causes more trouble than the comment was originally worth. Perhaps the worst thing is that Bill, who is usually her earpiece, just laughs off the mean comments about these guys who used to be his friends.

Jennifer Aydin needs to be kinder

Jen is dramatic AF, but she needs to learn how to be a kinder human being. Even when she shoots scenes with her children or siblings, she comes across as harsh, badmouthing her entire friend group. I understand that Real Housewives of New Jersey is a reality TV show where fans tune in for the drama. But there is nothing funny about Jen’s appalling attitude anymore. It’s just mean. And honestly, don’t we have enough bad things going on in the world?

Also, her use of the term b*tch could be considered quite offensive. When she uses it, she is hoping for a reaction. Or at least to wound her target with that sharp tongue. While the term is correct for a female dog, it is not a word that is accepted in formal situations. Calling another woman a b*tch is one of the most despicable things you can call another woman. So imagine it being used on a man. The term is most often censored on prime-time TV. So clearly, Jen knows the term is foul.

I think Jen might have benefited from being held back in kindergarten because she failed the golden rule.

TELL US— DO YOU THINK JENNIFER AYDIN NEEDS TO ACT KINDLY TO THOSE AROUND HER, OR IS SHE A LOST CAUSE?

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