People-pleasers often endure ongoing invalidation based on how others treat them. Pleasing others doesn't win their love and respect. It's essential to re-evaluate perceptions and decisions about what it means to be a good person. Many people believe that being kind, gentle, and agreeable will guarantee love and acceptance from...

Breaking the Pattern of the Need to Please

Introverts need more time to process emotions related to conflict as compared to extroverts. Extroverts receive more of a dopamine reward from relating to others and their outside world. Extroverts more often seek out the ability to process with their partner in the midst of conflict. In relationships, many of...

The 4-Step Introvert-Extrovert Conflict Resolution Plan

Research shows that leaders contend with several factors that drain their energy. One of the top drains leaders experience is dealing with others’ unproductive mindsets. By becoming aware of this drain, leaders can learn to focus their energy on what they can influence. This post is part three of...

5 Techniques to Deal with Others’ Unproductive Mindsets

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Mental exertion leads to irritation, frustration or other negative feelings in many situations, supporting the concept that it hurts to think, according to research published by the American Psychological Association.

It really hurts to think, new study concludes

Human brains prioritize negative experiences for survival (negativity bias), but this can harm relationships. Hyper-focusing on negatives can create a negative feedback loop between partners. Replacing negativity with a constructive focus can foster positive feedback loops and sentiment. Mindfulness, gratitude, positive communication, and cognitive restructuring can all counter negativity bias.

Breaking the Negativity Chain

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Imagine the difference between hunting and fishing. One requires a proactive approach, the other relies on the right bait to attract a catch. Modern dating for men has shifted from the aggressive pursuit of hunting to the patient allure of fishing. It’s time to learn the art of fishing.

The 7 Core Principles of Becoming an Irresistible Man

We all experience moments of social awkwardness, and that's perfectly normal. Being socially awkward doesn’t necessarily mean you lack social intelligence. In fact, many highly socially intelligent individuals, like Salma Hayek, Jessica Simpson, and Oprah Winfrey, have been labeled as awkward at times.

The 5 Mistakes a Socially Intelligent Person Will Never Make

K.D. Lewis

In their 20s and 30s, narcissists often seem to effortlessly bask in popularity and charm, projecting an image of perpetual appeal. They craft a persona of being the "cool kid," someone who has always been the center of attention since their early years.

The Aging Narcissist: Myths, Misunderstandings, and Realities

Communication is the lifeblood of any relationship, especially between parents and adult children. Look for activities that allow you to connect personally and create lasting memories. Recognizing and respecting your adult child’s independence is crucial for a healthy relationship. Strengthening the bond with your adult child can be a...

3 Ways to Strengthen Your Connection With Your Adult Child

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Do you know what psychogeometry is and what it has to do with your personality? You may have come across a simple test in which you can get an idea of ​​your character by choosing a geometric figure.

Choose a figure and find out your personality type: psychogeometric test

We say things about negative emotions we would never say about positive emotions. The emotional double standard is unfair to negative emotions. There's no reason to treat our bad feelings differently. “Don’t let your joy get the best of you.”. “Be careful: You might become a joyous person.”. “It’s...

The Emotion Double Standard

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Uncovering Florida

With hurricane season posing a consistent threat six months out of the year, who would not like a little help getting their home ready for the harsh weather to come? Senate Bill 7028: My Safe Florida Home Program, approved by Governor DeSantis on April 24, 2024, and effective as of July 1, appropriates a one-time total of $200 million from 2024 to 2025 for the purpose of funding hurricane mitigation grants and inspections, as well as outreach and administration costs, to support homeowners in Florida.

DeSantis Signs New Bill Giving $200 Million To Homeowners

Procrastination is a silly habit—even when we know how important something is, we end up delaying or avoiding it. Procrastination wins when it overpowers our sense of judgment—we know that not taking action is not right for us, and yet that’s exactly what we do. Procrastination not...

Your Guide For Overcoming Procrastination and Getting Down to Work

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Prayer has been an integral part of many cultures and religions for centuries. It serves as a spiritual practice, a form of meditation, and a means of seeking comfort and guidance. But beyond its spiritual significance, there is growing evidence that prayer can positively impact one’s health and longevity. This article explores seven compelling reasons why people who pray tend to live longer.

7 reasons people who pray live longer

The Wheel of Consent can help foster conscious, consensual, and fulfilling interactions between people. People can be more assertive and understand the dynamics of giving and receiving in intimate interactions. The Wheel of Consent is a practice of being mindful that brings freedom and integrity into your relationships. Establishing clear...

Boundaries and the Wheel of Consent

Difficult interactions with other people can activate our nervous system's fight/flight/freeze mode. When we're defensive and reactive, we often feel empowered and in control; in reality, we've lost control. Our greatest power and strength comes when we can access our full selves, and that requires taking a pause. As a...

Your Peace Is Your Power

When you consider the qualities you value most in those close to you, kindness, goodwill, generosity, and altruism likely come to mind. But what about when you think about the flaws that irritate you the most? Due to its impactful nature, selfishness often tops the list as the most bothersome fault.

Understanding the Selfish Persona

Libby Shively McAvoy, ANMAB

Empowerment is about seizing control of your life. It's about more than just surviving each day, doing what you think you should. It's about waking up with a sense of purpose and excitement, ready to tackle the day. It's about turning Mondays into opportunities and making the most of every moment. Does this sound like something you want in your life?

How to Become Empowered and Live Your Best Life

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NEWARK, N.J. – Attorney General Matthew J. Platkin and the New Jersey Division on Civil Rights (DCR) have issued Findings of Probable Cause against six property management companies and owners in various counties for failing to comply with requests for emotional support animals. These actions stem from alleged violations of the New Jersey Law Against Discrimination (LAD).

Housing Discrimination Against Emotional Support Animals Targeted

There are generally no foolproof lie detection methods. Dishonesty has many disadvantages, and metaphors can help us to visualize the potential impediments. Approaching the truth is often difficult, counter-intuitive, and ultimately provides more freedom. Lying and dishonesty are much more common human behaviors than most people realize. Episodes of untruthfulness...

Lying Unmasked

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Avoiding Narrative Fallacy to Optimize Decision-Making

Narrative fallacy developed so we can make quick guesses without all the facts. Narrative fallacy allows us to \"connect the dots\" but is often inaccurate. Knowing...

Narrative fallacy developed so we can make quick guesses without all the facts. Narrative fallacy allows us to "connect the dots" but is often inaccurate. Knowing...

Avoiding Narrative Fallacy to Optimize Decision-Making

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