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12 Signs Your Parent Might Be Gaslighting You (and How To Respond), According to Psychologists

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Narcissists carry an image of themselves as perfect, untouchable, and superior. This carefully constructed facade demands constant reinforcement. Any perceived slight, criticism, or challenge to this image threatens their inflated sense of self.

Narcissistic Sensitivity: Why Do Narcissists Get Offended So Easily?

If You Answer 'Yes' to Any of These 5 Questions, You May Be in a Gaslighting Relationship, Says a Psychologist

In recent years, the phenomenon known as "Walkaway Wife Syndrome" has seen a noticeable rise, with more women choosing to leave their marriages. This trend marks a significant shift in how society views and values marital relationships.

Why Walkaway Wife Syndrome Is Gaining Momentum

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Relationships are built on love, trust, and mutual respect. While every relationship has its own uniqueness, there are certain behaviors that can destroy even the strongest relationships.

5 Things a Man Will Never Forgive a Woman, Even the One He Can't Live Without

Relationships are a two-way street in all aspects. While partners do cover for each other every now and then, there still needs to be a certain level of balance. Over the past few decades, the institution of marriage in the United States has seen a significant decline of about 60% since the 1970s, reports CNBC. While there are various factors contributing to this trend, content creator Katie Hanlon—who goes by @thekatiehanlon on TikTok—has mentioned some less-discussed yet crucial factors that can often lead to relationship breakdowns.

Woman explains how marriages are ending because of the inability of men to talk about emotions

Dr. Kyle Osbourne, a clinical psychologist on TikTok, is helping people identify the crucial signs of relationship health through his series of videos titled "Green flags in a relationship that you probably thought were red flags." In his videos, Osbourne discusses behaviors that are sometimes mistakenly seen as negative but are actually signs of a well-rounded and healthy personality. His insights have resonated with millions, offering a fresh perspective on relationship dynamics and how to cope with common issues.

6 red flags that psychologist says are actually green

A narcissist may overcommunicate by lecturing, relating everything back to them, and by playing the victim. They may undercommunicate by lashing out or withdrawing at a time when they should be discussing feelings. Direct communication requires an ability to look inward and talk about difficult and real emotions. A narcissist...

A Narcissist Overcommunicates or Undercommunicates

Psychological abuse can be as damaging as physical harm, yet it often goes unnoticed. This type of abuse involves manipulating someone's emotions, leading to long-term mental health issues. Victims might feel isolated, worthless, or constantly anxious. Abusers use tactics like gaslighting, where they make the victim doubt their reality, or silent treatment, which creates a sense of abandonment. Recognizing these signs is crucial for anyone who suspects they or someone they know might be experiencing this form of abuse. Understanding psychological abuse helps in taking steps to protect oneself and seek help. Let's uncover 13 essential facts about psychological abuse to raise awareness and support those affected.

13 Facts About Psychological Abuse

Cheating, in any form, strikes at the heart of trust and security in a relationship. Whether it's a clandestine affair or a deep emotional bond with someone outside the relationship, the pain inflicted can be profound.

Emotional Cheating vs. Physical Cheating: Which Hurts More?

When a man struggles with low self-esteem, the signs often lurk beneath the surface, influencing his actions, thoughts, and relationships. These red flags of low self-esteem shouldn't be ignored, as they can profoundly affect both his mental well-being and the dynamics within his relationships.

Red Flags of Low Self-Esteem in Men You Shouldn't Ignore

As a relationship writer, I have seen many people struggling with the complexities of narcissistic personalities. Among the various types, grandiose narcissists stand out due to their overt behaviors and self-perception.

Identifying a Grandiose Narcissist: Key Signs and Red Flags

Strategic incompetence, can silently erode even the strongest relationships. This tactic, where one partner pretends to be bad at certain tasks to avoid doing them, creates frustration and resentment over time. Understanding its impact can help couples address the issue and strengthen their bond.

The Truth About Strategic Incompetence in Relationships

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The term "gaslighting" has become a popular, everyday term, but there's still some confusion about what it means. Part of the reason is that the word has been misused so many times that the definition has become fuzzier. But another reason is the gaslighting itself is confusing for the person on the receiving end. Even if you know what gaslighting is, it's not always clear that's it's happening to you. Briefly, gaslighting is a manipulation technique in which someone purposefully and maliciously makes someone question their reality. Abusers and narcissists will often use gaslighting to wear down their victims' sense of self and as a means of establishing and maintaining control over them. 

Feel like someone's gaslighting you? A 3-minute test can help you determine if they are.

Entering a new relationship often brings excitement and the promise of a fresh start. However, it's crucial to stay alert to certain behaviors that might signal deeper issues, such as narcissism.

Recognizing the Red Flags: Early Signs You're Dating a Narcissist

Difficult interactions with other people can activate our nervous system's fight/flight/freeze mode. When we're defensive and reactive, we often feel empowered and in control; in reality, we've lost control. Our greatest power and strength comes when we can access our full selves, and that requires taking a pause. As a...

Your Peace Is Your Power

Spewing—sharing too much at once, even when done with good intentions—can flood your partner. The alternative is opening a shutter—a slow, manageable sharing of your internal world. By opening a shutter, you prioritize depth over breadth and deepen intimacy. Co-authored with Galit Romanelli, M.A. Have you ever...

The Art of Relational Sharing

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NEWARK, N.J. – Attorney General Matthew J. Platkin and the New Jersey Division on Civil Rights (DCR) have issued Findings of Probable Cause against six property management companies and owners in various counties for failing to comply with requests for emotional support animals. These actions stem from alleged violations of the New Jersey Law Against Discrimination (LAD).

Housing Discrimination Against Emotional Support Animals Targeted

This tip can keep even boundary-adverse narcissists in check.

'I've Studied Psychology for 20 Years—Here's the #1 Way to Hold Boundaries With a Narcissist'

Malignant narcissism represents the most dangerous form of narcissism. This personality type intertwines grandiosity, need for admiration, and lack of empathy with antisocial behavior, aggression, and often sadistic tendencies.

The Malignant Narcissist: The Darkest Side of Narcissism

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How to Deal With Gaslighting From Your Boss

Workplace gaslighting is when a colleague or manager deliberately sows seeds of doubt in an employee's mind. Gaslighting is used to shake perceptions of reality or...

How to Deal With Gaslighting From Your Boss

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