Why Being Humble is Attractive & How It Will Help You Succeed

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Being humble may be one of the most underrated valuable qualities. Humility aids in self-awareness and goes hand in hand with emotional intelligence.

"Being humble means recognizing that we are not on earth to see how important we can become, but to see how much difference we can make in the lives of others." ~ Gordon B. Hinckley

Benefits of Being A Humble Person

• It allows us to see and acknowledge the areas in which we need self-improvement.
• It allows us to admit and apologize for the mistakes we make.
• Humility, by fostering a deeper level of self-understanding and awareness, leads to a state of contentment and joy as you no longer seek external validation. It broadens your perspective and allows you to see things from other people's perspectives.
• You compete more with yourself than with others.
• You appreciate and value helpful criticism.
• You look to others for inspiration rather than a source of jealousy.

How to Become More Humble

1. Celebrate the wins and victories of those around you.
2. Acknowledge your insecurities and weaknesses (we all have them).
3. Give compliments freely when you see fit.
4. Build your confidence.
5. Set boundaries. Avoid being agreeable just to be liked. Voice your opinion and perspectives and stand up for your beliefs.

Final Thoughts

Supporting others and working quietly brings more satisfaction than being the center of attention.

Being humble allows me to see all people's humanity, no matter their job or income level. I treat my sanitation workers and service people with the same compassion and respect I would treat my Priest or Dentist. It is amazing how far a small act of kindness can go.

Being humble goes hand in hand with a high level of emotional intelligence because you have the ability to know how you make others feel. You have empathy and are able to communicate effectively, raising the spirits of those around you while remaining approachable.

Being humble makes a great leader, friend, and parent.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. We all have a unique message and gift, so please share your magic while remaining humble and kind. Comment and tell me how you are feeling today!

Peace & Light,

Libby