Explaining the connection between narcissism and aggression
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The narcissist in my life was never overtly aggressive. They didn't always yell or put their hands on me, but they were still aggressive to me in other ways.
Their passive-aggressive behavior, belittling, and gaslighting created a toxic environment, leaving me insecure and doubting myself. Their aggression, although not physical, inflicted invisible scars on my self-esteem.
Walking on eggshells to avoid their wrath drained me mentally, leaving me feeling trapped and helpless.
Now that I am away from this type of person, I know that a lot of their behavior now was aggressive. From there, I wanted to know more about narcissism and aggression.
Now, I'd like to share that all with you!
Narcissism and Aggression
Essentially, the key part of narcissism is entitlement. When a narcissist feels entitled, they will stop at nothing to reclaim what they believe is theirs. Narcissists possessions are an extension of themselves, so they take great pride and protection in keeping their stuff.
Aggressive tendencies can be measured from personality. Someone's personality affects whether they will display aggressive symptoms or not. Through the use of personality measures, researchers can break apart narcissism to understand how it may present in people.
High narcissism isn't needed for someone to show aggression, anyone can. But someone who is narcissistic may be more include to use aggressive tactics.
Types of aggression
When we first think about aggression, the idea of physical aggression may pop up. In this case, someone may be trying to intimidate another person. This person can be scary and extremely intense.
While that may be what aggression looks like for some, it isn't the only way aggression can be shown.
Aggression is not simply a set type of behaviors, and it more certainly is not always in your face. There are various forms of aggression, all serving as different purpose for the aggressor to the victim.
According to Mind Diagnostics, there are 4 different types of aggression:
Physical aggression
Someone will show aggressive behavior in a way that aims to cause physical harm to you or others. This can include hitting, slapping, kicking, etc. Physical aggression is characterized as someone causing harm to another person's body.
Mental aggression
Aggression that is targeted at someone’s mental health that would incude, anxiety, stress, and possibly depression.
Emotional aggression
Aggression can be be aimed at someone’s emotions that seeks to tear them down and can lead to someone being unable to express themselves.
Verbal aggression
This type of aggression is looking to verbally berate and breakdown someone in order to lower their confidence in themselves and their ability to speak up.
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Narcissistic behavior is very harmful especially to children. Raising grandchildren because of it. It’s an awful story. I tried for 18 years to get this child on track but it did no good. But I did try and couldn’t get much help. But at least some professionals are trying to help parents with their out of control children. Don’t bash me for this or that I have 2 children who are very successful in the health dept. and mental health department. They saw how hard I tried and wanted to help when they became adults.
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