Struggling to Get Him to Come Over? Try These 7 Subtle Moves

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This article was written with the help of AI.

If you’ve ever found yourself in a room with the guy and wondered, "Why won't he just come over and talk to me?"—you're not alone. Many women face this same frustration. It can feel like an invisible wall is keeping him from making the first move. But sometimes, all it takes are a few subtle signals to get him to notice and approach you.

Here are 7 subtle moves you can try:

1. Make Eye Contact: Hold his gaze for a few seconds and then look away. It's a classic move that signals you're interested without saying a word.
2. Smile Naturally: A warm, inviting smile can ease his nerves and encourage him to come over.
3. Turn Your Body Towards Him: Your body language speaks volumes. Position yourself in a way that opens up space for him to approach.
4. Play with Your Hair: A simple hair flip can be a subtle yet flirty gesture.
5. Laugh with Friends: Show you're having a good time. Men are drawn to women who appear relaxed and approachable.
6. Break the Ice: Drop something small in his direction, like a pen. It’s a non-verbal invitation for him to come over and interact.
7. Mirror His Movements: Subtly mimicking his body language can create a sense of connection and make him feel more comfortable approaching.

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