Dating: The Dos and Don’ts of Dating Someone New

We all know that feeling of bubbling excitement and butterflies in your belly when dating someone new. Dating someone new can be exciting and fun but it can also be tricky. At the initial stage of a relationship, some things could go wrong. Do not fret - you’ll find what could potentially harm your nearly-found love and what would help it blossom. Understanding these do’s and don’ts of dating someone new can help you strengthen your new romantic relationship.

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Be Open and Authentic

When you are dating someone new, you should be open and honest. Communication is the key in relationships, especially with a potential new partner. Share your thoughts and feelings with your date. If they do something that upsets you, calmly tell them. It also helps to actively listen to one another. You and your date may find something in common to have a nice conversation.

The best thing you can do while dating someone new is to be yourself. You might feel pressured to impress your date by faking a few things, but it will cause problems for you later on. Your potential partner wants to get to know you till they feel comfortable to meet again. Being yourself will allow you to show your date who you truly are; your personality, feelings, and opinions. It will also help you both see if you're meant for each other.

Don't Compare

Comparing your date to your previous partners can make them feel insecure or guilty about their own. Instead, learn about who they are and you may appreciate what makes them special. Complimenting someone can help build each other's positive self-esteem. They want you to feel relaxed and leave the past behind.

Don't Rush, Go Steady

Even though dating might be exciting, try not to rush into a relationship. Try to learn more about your potential partner at a steady pace. Don't start talking about serious topics like marriage or children after one date. You will become overwhelmed and possibly scare away your date. Instead, discuss each other's hobbies and pet peeves to be aware of. Taking it slow will relieve unnecessary pressure and allow the relationship to flow naturally.

Explore and Have Fun

While dating, people have way too many options. Dating apps have allowed us to talk to multiple people, so try not to take it too seriously, especially on the first date. Instead, have fun and enjoy the experience. You are getting to know someone new and making new connections. If your first date is successful, you may try out a new hobby together. Do not be scared of rejection and bond with other single people waiting for you. Allow yourself to enjoy the process and do not put unnecessary pressure on yourself.

Final Thoughts

Moving forward while soul-searching requires having proper communication. Allowing yourself and your date to create an experience at a good pace may lead to a new chapter. And as you both learn about each other, a spark could form. Even if you may not end up together, you could build a friendship instead.

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This article was originally written by Ibukunoluwa King-Okuneye.