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As a cat parent, earning your feline friend’s trust can feel like winning the ultimate prize. Cats are known for being independent, so when they trust you, it’s a huge compliment. But how can you tell if your cat feels truly comfortable and safe with you? Here are five surefire signs that your cat trusts you completely.

They Show You Their Belly

A cat’s belly is one of their most vulnerable spots. If your cat flops down and exposes their belly to you, it’s a big sign of trust. While they may not want a belly rub (and you might get swatted if you try), just showing their belly means they feel safe and protected around you.

Slow Blinking at You

The slow blink is like a feline “I love you.” When your cat gives you those long, slow blinks, they’re showing that they feel relaxed and at ease. Try slow blinking back — it’s a way to return the affection and communicate that you trust them, too.

They Headbutt or Rub Against You

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When a cat headbutts you, it’s called “bunting,” and it’s their way of marking you with their scent. This means they consider you part of their safe, familiar space. It’s also a sign of deep affection, as cats only headbutt people they trust.

They Knead on You

If your cat kneads on you — that rhythmic paw-pressing action — it’s a sign of comfort and contentment. This behavior dates back to kittenhood, when they kneaded their mother for milk. By kneading on you, your cat is showing that they feel secure and comfortable in your presence.

They Sleep Near or On You

Cats are vulnerable when they sleep, so if your cat chooses to snooze near or on you, it’s a clear indication that they trust you. Sleeping next to you shows that they feel safe enough to let their guard down completely.

The Ultimate Compliment

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If your cat does any (or all) of these things, congratulations! You’ve earned their trust, and that’s no small feat. Cats are naturally cautious creatures, so when they trust you, they’re letting you into their inner circle — and that’s the highest form of flattery in the feline world.

Case, L. P. (2010). The Cat: Its Behavior, Nutrition, and Health (2nd ed.). Wiley-Blackwell.

Leyhausen, P. (1979). Cat Behavior: The Predatory and Social Behavior of Domestic and Wild Cats. Garland Publishing.