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Divorce is often seen as a life-altering event that impacts both partners, but the changes it brings to men are sometimes less discussed. While society may expect men to move on quickly or "tough it out," the reality is that divorce can deeply affect their emotional, psychological, and even physical well-being.

Ways Divorce Can Change a Man

Divorce used to be a life event that many saw as the end of the road, especially for women over 50. But times have changed. Today, divorced women in their 50s and beyond are not just surviving; they’re thriving.

Single and Thriving: Why Divorced Women Over 50 Are Staying Solo

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Black women are all too familiar with the microaggressions that are synonymous with the predominately white spaces, including the workplace. It can look like put-downs, insults, or belittling or bullying behavior.  In a recent viral TikTok video, creator White Woman Whisperer, posed a sub-question in response to the viral man versus bear question. She asked,… Continue reading Black Women Spark Outrage After Sharing Preference for White Men in Workplace

Black Women Spark Outrage After Sharing Preference for White Men in Workplace

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It's been 21 years since actress/singer Nell Carter, best known for the 1980s NBC sitcom, Gimme a Break!, died of natural causes at only 54. This is her story. Nell Carter was born September 13, 1948, in Birmingham, Alabama. After initially finding fame on and off-Broadway, and via a brief role in 1977 on the TV datime drama, Ryan's Hope, Carter took the lead in Ain't Misbehavin'!, a live stage revue of the works of composer Fats Waller.

The Brief Life & Tragic Death of Nell Carter ('Gimme A Break' & 'Ain't Misbehavin'): 21 Years Later

Emotional abuse often hides in plain sight, leaving scars that aren't visible but deeply felt. Did you know that emotional abuse affects millions of people worldwide, yet it remains one of the least understood forms of abuse? Emotional abuse statistics reveal shocking truths about its prevalence and impact. From relationships to workplaces, emotional abuse can occur anywhere, affecting anyone. Understanding these statistics helps us recognize the signs and support those in need. Why is it crucial to be aware of emotional abuse statistics? Because knowledge empowers us to take action, offer support, and create safer environments for everyone. Let's dive into 13 eye-opening facts that shed light on this silent epidemic.

13 Facts About Emotional Abuse Statistics

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Lucius Annaeus Seneca, the famous Roman Stoic philosopher, left an indelible mark on the history of philosophy. His views on life, power, wealth, and death remain relevant to this day.

How Women Are Tried, Who to Talk To, and Other Lessons of Wisdom from Lucius Seneca

Dating in the queer community can feel like navigating a new exciting city—there’s a lot to explore, but you’re not quite sure where to start. Are you about to meet someone from an app, through friends, or perhaps a charming encounter at your favorite bookstore? No matter how you two met, making that first date successful sets the tone for everything that might follow.

18 Tips For Your First LGBTQ+ Date

These words come to me in a country where 16-year-old Nex, of Oklahoma’s Choctaw Nation, refuses to stay confined by the gender norms imposed on them or endure the brutal reality of their identity. They suffer beatings in the girls' bathroom, where three girls yank at Nex’s hair and bang their head against the tiles until they lose consciousness. No high school official calls an ambulance. The next day, Nex collapses at their grandmother’s house and never stands up again. Authorities rule the death a suicide. The story fades away after a few weeks, leaving Nex Benedict and their kind to disappear into the void.

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Relationships require us to learn new ways of collaborating, communicating, self-reflecting, and of course, growing. If you want to be in a relationship with another person, you have to expand. If you want to be in a conscious relationship, you need to centralize the relationship. Centralizing the relationship often means decentralizing yourself, which can be challenging.

Want A Lasting Relationship? Start Doing This, A Couples Therapist Says

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When it comes to romantic relationships, certain traits can significantly influence initial attraction. Height, especially in men, has long been considered an advantageous trait. While the reasons behind this preference can be complex, combining biological, psychological and cultural factors, tall men often find themselves with certain surprising advantages in the dating scene, particularly in finding a wife.

4 surprising advantages tall men have finding a wife

Dating someone significantly older has long been a topic of discussion and often comes with its own set of societal judgments. However, the benefits of dating a partner 10 years older are numerous and can lead to a deeply fulfilling relationship. In this article, we’ll explore the advantages of such relationships, provide insights into the dynamics involved, and offer advice on how to navigate the potential challenges.

Why women and men should date partners 10 years older

Understanding pronouns is crucial in today’s diverse and inclusive society. Pronouns are how we identify ourselves apart from our names, and they play a significant role in respecting each other’s identities. Here are 15 essential facts to keep you informed and respectful in conversations. 1. Pronouns Express Identity.

15 Ways to Prevent a Gender Blunder

Orlando, FL

Police in Florida are asking for the public’s help in identifying the person who shot and killed a Black transgender woman in an Orlando parking lot last month. Monique Brooks, 49, was found suffering from at least one gunshot wound outside a Burlington Coat Factory around 3:50 a.m. on July 19, according to the Orange County Sheriff’s Office. She was taken to a local hospital where she later was pronounced dead.

Black trans woman Monique Brooks shot and killed in Florida parking lot

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A bill quietly introduced this spring in the Colorado legislature to decriminalize the possession of drug paraphernalia obtained by harm reductionists has become law. As low-key as the legislation was introduced, the bill was signed into law without fanfare June 6. It garnered little to no media attention.

Colorado legalizes needles, pipes for meth and crack if obtained by harm reduction group

Former child star Jonathan Brandis, who committed suicide in 2003, had appeared in several TV shows and movies by the time he was a teen. He became best on the big screen for his leading role in 1991's The Neverending Story 2: The Next Chapter, and on the small screen for two seasons on Steven Spielberg's acclaimed science series, SeaQuest DSV. Brandis was only 27 when he opted to end his life.

The Tragic Death of Former Child Star Jonathan Brandis ('SeaQuest'/'Never Ending Story')

Previously, I wrote about the red flags you may be dealing with a female psychopath and how female psychopaths target their victims. But how do male psychopaths operate, and what kind of traits and behaviors do they seek in a potential romantic partner? Here are the four surprising traits psychopaths look for in women. Keep in mind that if you were targeted by a psychopathic person, it was not your fault, as they can use both your strengths and your vulnerabilities against you.

Psychopaths Look For Women With These 4 Surprising Traits In Romantic Relationships

After decades of fighting for equal rights and acceptance, people on the LGBTQ+ spectrum, as well as those who don’t conform to traditional gender stereotypes, are experiencing more and more acceptance everyday. Although the LGBTQ community still doesn't enjoy secure rights in the eyes of United States government (gender-affirming medical care, for instance, is restricted in many states), everyday families are making more of an effort to raise their children without gender norms, prioritizing their happiness and individual identity, rather than forcing them to conform.

These Celebrities Are Raising Their Children Without Gender Stereotypes

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Friendships—especially as an adult—can be harder to find and maintain, but they’re essential to emotional well-being. Research shows that cultivating friendships late into adulthood can help stave off loneliness, depression, and social isolation. My friendships are especially meaningful because they make up much of my chosen family....

3 Therapists Share Their Top Friendship Dealbreakers

Having experiences that feel as if one is interacting with a deceased person are common. These experiences tend to be positive and may even be experienced as therapeutic. Research finds that after-death communication experiences can occur outside of grief. Co-authored with Imants Barušs, Ph.D. After-death communications (ADCs) refer to...

What We Know About After-Death Communication Experiences

While it’s certainly not fun, finding yourself in a fight with your partner is certainly normal. In fact, disagreements are pretty much inevitable, as no one sees eye-to-eye on absolutely everything. And when you’re emotionally involved with someone, feelings can get hurt, which can stir up a little bit of conflict. Of course, some relationships are more fraught with arguments than others, and there are a few lucky zodiac couples who rarely fight thanks to their smooth and complementary compatibility.

These 3 Zodiac Couples Rarely Fight

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The journey of an LGBTQ+ rights advocate: Jaymes Black tells their story

In James Baldwin’s 1960 essay “They Can’t Turn Back,” he reveals, “It took many years of vomiting up all the filth I'd been taught about myself,...

The journey of an LGBTQ+ rights advocate: Jaymes Black tells their story

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