A relationship expert shares what he’s learned from years of observing couples. Anyone who gets married goes into it expecting a long-lasting union, but as we all know, many of them will turn out to be wrong. In fact, about 43% of first marriages in the U.S. end in divorce — and if you ask renowned psychotherapist John Gottman, the writing is probably on the wall from early on.

6 Signs That Your Marriage Is Headed For Divorce

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Marriage counseling can be a pivotal step for couples experiencing difficulties in their relationship. It offers a safe space to address issues, improve communication and work toward a healthier partnership. However, the process often involves confronting uncomfortable truths and answering tough questions that can be challenging but ultimately transformative. Here are seven tough questions marriage counselors will likely ask during your sessions.

7 tough questions marriage counselors will ask

Relationships are a two-way street in all aspects. While partners do cover for each other every now and then, there still needs to be a certain level of balance. Over the past few decades, the institution of marriage in the United States has seen a significant decline of about 60% since the 1970s, reports CNBC. While there are various factors contributing to this trend, content creator Katie Hanlon—who goes by @thekatiehanlon on TikTok—has mentioned some less-discussed yet crucial factors that can often lead to relationship breakdowns.

Woman explains how marriages are ending because of the inability of men to talk about emotions

Any relationship that we are in long term goes through seasons, especially if we are committed to another person and have invested our time, love, and energy into the relationship. No relationship is perfect, despite how much we romanticize them. Even the most satisfying of relationships need conscious attention and...

7 Signs A Relationship Has Reached Its Breaking Point, From A Therapist

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K.D. Lewis

Cheating, in any form, strikes at the heart of trust and security in a relationship. Whether it's a clandestine affair or a deep emotional bond with someone outside the relationship, the pain inflicted can be profound.

Emotional Cheating vs. Physical Cheating: Which Hurts More?

I have encountered many people who struggle within their marriages yet find themselves unable to leave. Besides the fact that the average divorce costs $12k to $15k and up, there are a lot of reasons why people stay in unhappy marriages.

Why We Stick It Out in Failing Marriages

Infidelity is not just a physical act but a breach of emotional commitment. Spending money foolishly can lead to resentment, stress, and, ultimately, marital breakdown. Jealousy can suffocate intimacy and erode the emotional connection between partners. A classic 1997 study published in the Journal of Marriage and Family analyzed over...

The 6 Leading Causes of Divorce

While it’s certainly not fun, finding yourself in a fight with your partner is certainly normal. In fact, disagreements are pretty much inevitable, as no one sees eye-to-eye on absolutely everything. And when you’re emotionally involved with someone, feelings can get hurt, which can stir up a little bit of conflict. Of course, some relationships are more fraught with arguments than others, and there are a few lucky zodiac couples who rarely fight thanks to their smooth and complementary compatibility.

These 3 Zodiac Couples Rarely Fight

Communication is the lifeblood of any relationship, especially between parents and adult children. Look for activities that allow you to connect personally and create lasting memories. Recognizing and respecting your adult child’s independence is crucial for a healthy relationship. Strengthening the bond with your adult child can be a...

3 Ways to Strengthen Your Connection With Your Adult Child

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Disclaimer: Ms. Trent's content is intended for general information and entertainment. The astrological information presented has been extensively researched, meticulously recorded, and carefully observed by the author.

Which Are the Most Toxic Couples in the Zodiac?

Dark empaths present a unique challenge in relationships. They combine empathy with dark traits like narcissism or Machiavellianism, using their understanding of others' emotions to manipulate and control.

Protect Yourself from the Emotional Manipulation of a Dark Empath

Many people go to therapy when they feel a sudden disconnection between themselves and their partner. They may say things like:. “We’ve always shared our feelings with one another and talked all the time—about anything and everything. Now our conversations feel almost one-sided.”. “We used to discuss our...

3 Signs That Your Partner Is Falling Out of Love With You

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Cornelius, NC

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CAMDEN, N.J. – Lisa Smith, 61, of Cornelius, North Carolina, has admitted to her role in a fraudulent scheme involving over $3.5 million in Paycheck Protection Program (PPP) loans. U.S. Attorney Philip R. Sellinger announced today that Smith pleaded guilty before U.S. District Judge Karen M. Williams in Camden federal court on July 17, 2024, to a charge of bank fraud conspiracy.

Woman Pleads Guilty to $3.5M COVID Relief Scam

Relationships require us to learn new ways of collaborating, communicating, self-reflecting, and of course, growing. If you want to be in a relationship with another person, you have to expand. If you want to be in a conscious relationship, you need to centralize the relationship. Centralizing the relationship often means decentralizing yourself, which can be challenging.

Want A Lasting Relationship? Start Doing This, A Couples Therapist Says

When I was in the throes of the hardest times of my marriage, I remember thinking how nice it would be if he and I lived across the street from each other instead of the same house.

The Case for Living Apart Together: Why Couples Are Choosing Separate Homes

In the midst of our inner emotional storms, we often forget to turn to each other for support and connection. Emotional intimacy and empathy can protect against marital strain and create an emotionally resilient bond. In emotionally fulfilling marriages, partners continuously work on deepening their emotional connection. A new study...

Two Hallmarks of a Marriage That's Emotionally Fulfilling

When we expect our partners to change, we set ourselves up for disappointment and resentment. Acceptance in a relationship also involves self-awareness and growth. Embracing acceptance over expectation can transform relationships. As you read this, countless relationship partners are either thinking or complaining to others about things they wish their...

The Biggest Mistake We Make in Our Intimate Relationships

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Roxboro, NC

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According to Travel alot, Roxboro, North Carolina, holds the unfortunate title of the most miserable city in the state. Several factors contribute to this designation, including high poverty rates, low median household income, and high crime rates.

North Carolina City Named The 'Most Miserable' In The State

The phenomenon of men leaving women with children to create new families is a complex and multifaceted issue. It raises questions about commitment, societal pressures, and the challenges of modern relationships. This article delves into the reasons behind this behavior, offering insights into the emotional and psychological factors at play.

Why men leave women with children to create new families

Imagine you're constantly doubting your own memories and sanity because someone insists you’re wrong, even when you know you're right. This sinister manipulation is gaslighting, a covert form of emotional abuse that leaves deep psychological scars.

Gaslighting in Relationships: How to Protect Your Mental Health

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The Importance of Financial Wellness for Couples

Financial wellness fosters trust, cooperation, and mutual respect in relationships. Shared financial goals strengthen communication and collaboration between partners. Budgeting together reduces financial stress and aligns...

The Importance of Financial Wellness for Couples

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