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An intelligent person has solutions for everything except self-love. What is hidden in the inner world of extremely intelligent people that makes them constantly doubt themselves?

8 Signs You're Smart But Don't Realize It Because of Low Self-Esteem

Libby Shively McAvoy, ANMAB

"Let your past make you better, not bitter." ~Lord Posts. When discussing relationships, bitterness stems from a lack of appreciation, validation, and respect. Often, the bitter person is left with underlying feelings of resentment, sadness, rejection, and anger that compound over time and leave them holding a grudge toward the person they once loved. You can either stay bitter or get better- the choice is yours. You either take what has been dealt and allow it to make you a better person, or you allow it to crush you.

How To Go From Bitter To Better & Empower Yourself to Live Your Best Life

Relationships are built on love, trust, and mutual respect. While every relationship has its own uniqueness, there are certain behaviors that can destroy even the strongest relationships.

5 Things a Man Will Never Forgive a Woman, Even the One He Can't Live Without

Apathy is one of the most telling signs that a partner is emotionally distancing themselves. Emotional distance can be hard to pinpoint. Recognizing signs that your partner is slipping away is the first step in addressing the underlying issues. Relationships are dynamic, evolving entities that require constant attention and care....

When Love Fades: 4 Signs Your Partner Is Slipping Away

Gender equality and household chores have been at loggerheads for a long time. The gradual resolution to this debate can now be seen in the change of perspectives among men and women across the globe. While women have borne the burden of household chores for decades now, times seem to be changing for the better and people are arriving at the realization that managing a house is a collective responsibility of the adults occupying it. A recent viral TikTok video shared by a Texan UPS driver, J.R. Minton (@minton__jr), shows him changing the narrative around household chores.

Dad explains why he 'can't help' his wife with household chores and hits the nail on the head

BuzzFeed

Experts say these phrases are a big deal — and they’re worth your attention.

"They Feel Safe With You": These Are The 4 Major Things Your Kids May Say That You Should Never Ignore

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E.B. Johnson | NLPMP

My mother couldn’t tolerate anyone doing better than her. Although she did little to make herself successful, fulfilled, or happy, she expected to sit on top of the pile in all these things. No one could be tolerated if they had more money than her, more career success, or more emotional stability. She only held space in her life for people who were suffering, and if they weren’t…she had an uncanny habit of creating that suffering for them.

Is Your Mother a Malignant Narcissist? These Are the Signs To Look For.

No man will ever come right out and tell you he likes it when you compliment him because it’s a weird thing to ask for, and also not very “manly,” if you will. But just because he doesn’t ask, doesn’t mean he doesn’t crave.

Things Guys Secretly Want From Their Girlfriends But Will Never Admit

Many astronauts who have viewed the Earth from space recall experiencing the “overview effect.” This is a profound positive shift in perspective and involves experiencing a sense of awe and a new understanding of the interconnectedness of life on Earth. Astronauts are often overwhelmed with emotion while taking...

2 Ways the "Overview Effect" Can Make You Feel Alive

The Atlantic

It’s a need that government subsidies and better family policy can’t necessarily address.

The Real Reason People Aren’t Having Kids

Your boss plays a significant role in your work life, but they also profoundly impact your mental health. Unrealistic expectations can lead to burnout, chronic stress, and physical health issues. Public criticism can lead to social anxiety, a decrease in self-esteem, and even depression. Work can be stressful, but when...

3 Ways Your Boss Could Be Destroying Your Mental Health

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Kentucky Vibes.net

Disclaimer: This article was written with the help of A.I. software. The term "spoiled child" is often thrown around, but what does it really mean? According to Dr. Denitrea Vaughan, Psy.D., LPC, a Texas-based supervisor with Thriveworks, "'Spoiled,' as in a 'spoiled child,' can be defined as characteristics of excessive self-centered and immature behaviors due to a lack of age-appropriate boundaries being set by parents." Although parents generally don’t intend to "spoil" a child, certain parenting strategies—often born from well-meaning intentions or a reflection of how they were raised—can lead to this outcome. The consequences are far-reaching, with specific traits often carrying over into adulthood, impacting both workplace dynamics and personal relationships.

People Who Were 'Spoiled' as Children Usually Develop These 16 Traits as Adults, Psychologists Say

K.D. Lewis

Drama is an inevitable part of life, but some of us seem to attract it like a magnet. If you’re tired of being caught up in the whirlwind of other people’s chaos, it’s time to take control and cultivate peace in your life.

Want Peace in Your Life? Here's How to Subtly Avoid Drama

9 Truths That Will Save You from Many Mistakes and Suffering. How often do we seek approval by sharing our plans, ideas, dreams, and in response we receive misunderstanding, criticism, and feel how the desire to do something disappears. Our dreams, which previously seemed brilliant and bright, fade under the weight of someone else's skepticism. Or, having shared our successes, we feel emptiness, as if all the energy that nourished us has flowed away.

What You Shouldn't Share and What You Need to Get Rid of: 9 Truths That Will Save You

People who make others wait violate the social contract that people should stick to time commitments. New research shows how waiting not only becomes an annoyance, but can cause relationships to falter. Respecting time commitments can ensure that the social contract remains intact. Relationships run on the assumption that people...

Why It’s Not Such a Good Idea to Keep Someone Waiting

Psychophysiology shows us we are consistently transforming in accordance with our repeated experiences. Digital overload is unceasingly activating our fear response, preventing times of necessary emotional calm. Creating our own calm is essential to counteract digital overload and balance our emotional and mental health. On my morning run, I saw...

Is Digital Overload Increasing Your Anxiety?

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In the intricate world of modern relationships, understanding someone’s true intentions can be both thrilling and nerve-wracking. It’s natural to wonder if the person you’re interested in feels the same way about you. Knowing if he’s genuinely into you requires paying close attention to his actions, words and the energy he brings into the relationship. In this article, we will explore five key steps to help you discern his true feelings, ensuring that your emotional investment is reciprocated and authentic.

5 key steps to know if he’s genuinely into you

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Both of my teenagers are dating, and their breakups are hard on me, too. I don't want to see them get hurt, and I'm invested in their relationships.

Both of my kids recently started dating and their breakups are hard on me, too. I'm also invested in their relationships.

Curiosity is linked to less aggressive responses, giving time for more productive ones. Research shows that curiosity correlates with greater levels of intimacy even in minor interactions. Curiosity opens us to others' perspectives. "Be curious, not judgmental."—Walt Whitman. The rainbow of human relationships is endless. We have friendships, siblings,...

2 Most Important Tools to Improve Any Relationship

Throughout the ages of human existence, remarkable individuals in various fields have left us priceless gifts of wisdom – nuggets of insight and timeless truths contained in their words. Their quotes and aphorisms serve as beacons that guide humanity through the labyrinth of life and provide profound lessons that transcend time and space.

Why You Shouldn't Ask About Things That Don't Concern You, and Other Life Lessons from Great People

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\"But I Don't Want to Blame My Parents!\"

We often feel guilt and shame for even considering the wounding mistakes our parents made. So, very often we just won't talk about them. We think...

"But I Don't Want to Blame My Parents!"

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