So-called “toxic” women aren’t always actually toxic. While some certainly are, let’s reevaluate the label a little in the context of the patriarchal society we live in. A woman is actually toxic when she lacks empathy, is cruel, is exploitative, manipulative, and deliberately demeaning — that is a narcissistic woman, but she is not the true subject of this article. We certainly don’t want to embody true toxicity or encourage those traits or behaviors. But some of the women men usually label as “toxic” and fall in love with may not be any of these things. Some of these women are labeled “toxic” and “difficult” for all the wrong reasons by low quality men — like standing up for themselves or having basic boundaries, not being submissive enough for a controlling man, or fighting back and defending oneself against mistreatment. Here are the real reasons why men fall in love with so-called “toxic” and “difficult” women, and how you can integrate this knowledge to improve your dating life and protect yourself.

The Real Reason Men Fall In Love With “Toxic” Women, According to Psychology

When we expect our partners to change, we set ourselves up for disappointment and resentment. Acceptance in a relationship also involves self-awareness and growth. Embracing acceptance over expectation can transform relationships. As you read this, countless relationship partners are either thinking or complaining to others about things they wish their...

The Biggest Mistake We Make in Our Intimate Relationships

As humans, we often prefer a strong protagonist. Leadership research studies both CEOs and followers, which can be thought of as strong and weak links. Leadership titles are not the same as leadership behaviors. Co-authored with Dr. Thomas Kelemen. “A chain is only as strong as its weakest link” is...

Focusing on Making the Weak Links Stronger

Financial stress can affect a person's mood and cognition. Financial stress can also bias one's view of the world, including of one's romantic partner. Worldwide, financial stress and uncertainty are increasing amidst recessions and lingering affordability crises stemming from the pandemic. According to the Gallup Index, 57 percent of U.S. Americans reported being moderately or very worried about not having enough money to maintain their standard of living, and an American Psychological Association study found that 72 percent of participants reported that money is a significant source of stress for them.

What Financial Stress Does to Relationships

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When it comes to love, the adage is that opposites attract. But does that really hold?

Do opposites really attract in relationships?

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Deciding whether to end a relationship is a complex and challenging process. Should one put in more effort to make things work, or is it time to accept that too much energy has already been expended?

Should You End a Relationship? Research Reveals Key Factors to Consider

Previously, I wrote about the red flags you may be dealing with a female psychopath and how female psychopaths target their victims. But how do male psychopaths operate, and what kind of traits and behaviors do they seek in a potential romantic partner? Here are the four surprising traits psychopaths look for in women. Keep in mind that if you were targeted by a psychopathic person, it was not your fault, as they can use both your strengths and your vulnerabilities against you.

Psychopaths Look For Women With These 4 Surprising Traits In Romantic Relationships

In a previous article, I discussed what women with emotional mastery tend to do in dating and relationships that draw in high-quality partners. But how do people in general behave when they have emotional mastery, and how does it differ from the ways dark personalities behave in relationships?. Project their...

People With Emotional Mastery Never Do These 5 Things in Relationships (But Narcissists Do)

Apathy is one of the most telling signs that a partner is emotionally distancing themselves. Emotional distance can be hard to pinpoint. Recognizing signs that your partner is slipping away is the first step in addressing the underlying issues. Relationships are dynamic, evolving entities that require constant attention and care....

When Love Fades: 4 Signs Your Partner Is Slipping Away

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Are you the type of person who always gets the short end of the stick? Or do seemingly random events always work out in your favor? The interesting thing is that, according to research, whether you think you are lucky or unlucky, you're right.The good news is that if you have bad luck, you can do some things to improve it.Richard Wiseman studied 400 people over 10 years and found that people can control what seems uncontrollable: their luck. Wiseman is the author of “The Luck Factor” and holds Britain’s only professorship in the public understanding of psychology at the University of Hertfordshire. He is also a fellow of the Committee for Skeptical Inquiry and a “Skeptical Inquirer” consulting editor.

Professor and skeptic found that there’s one proven way to make yourself luckier

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Portions of this article writen with AI assistance. The question of what lies on the other side of life has captivated humanity for centuries. While the finality of death is an undeniable part of the human experience, the possibility of maintaining connections with our departed loved ones continues to captivate the public imagination.

Communicating With The Dead: Study Reveals Our Beliefs

Looking over your life—beyond your current sweetie, mate, or spouse—there have undoubtedly been people who have positively influenced you but whom you have never told, others you are sure knew your feelings, and some whom it may soon be too late to let know. It's worth the time...

"Have I Ever Told You What You Mean to Me?"

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One of the most famous names in the world of psychology is certainly Sigmund Freud. The advice and lessons he left behind are still studied today. According to his point of view, mentally strong people are endowed with certain qualities.

6 Things Strong People Don't Do: Sigmund Freud's Hard Truths

Personality tests act as mirrors to our inner selves, highlighting the diversity of our characteristics and tendencies. They serve as tools for self-awareness, allowing us to penetrate our inner selves and reveal what is usually hidden from view. These tests offer a systematic and unbiased method for revealing our instinctive reactions, preferences, and even qualities.

Quick Personality Analysis: The First Thing You See in 3 Images Will Tell You the Truth About You

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Jim Nabors refused to fire co-star Frank Sutton and then CBS cancelled his TV variety show. Here's what happened. The Jim Nabors Hourwas broadcast on CBS from 1969 to 1971, following Nabors' decision to end his hit sitcom Gomer Pyle - USMC (CBS, 1964-1969).

Jim Nabors Refused to Fire Co-Star Frank Sutton and Then CBS Cancelled His TV Variety Show

One of the hallmarks of the "as-if" personality and imposter syndrome is perfectionism. Anything is excluded that might displease, and one aims to avoid whatever could be interpreted as discordant or misshapen. This person is lured by the relief of fantasy and creates images, ideas, and events to cover the assumed personality flaws. Social media promotes these presentations of oneself.

The Dead End of Perfectionism

When searching for a romantic partner, most people have an idea of what their ideal partner should be like. Common preferences might include traits such as intelligence, a good sense of humor, or physical attractiveness. But how much do these ideal partner preferences really influence who we find attractive or end up dating? A large-scale international study, conducted in collaboration with the Psychological Science Accelerator, sought to answer this question by testing whether the traits people say they want in a partner actually predict how they feel about their romantic interests in real life.

The reality of romantic preferences: Large-scale study reveals surprising truths

If you haven't heard the phrase, "very demure, very mindful" at least once over the last 24 hours, just know, it's coming. The expression has become the tagline of a new "demure" trend that is taking social media by storm. (In a considerate way, of course.) The trend, which was...

5 Beauty Habits That Are Very Demure, Very Mindful

Understanding the psychopaths and sociopaths difference is crucial not just for mental health professionals but also for educators, administrators, and students. Both psychopathy and sociopathy fall under the umbrella of Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD), yet they manifest distinct behaviors and traits that can significantly impact educational settings. This comprehensive guide explores how the psychopaths and sociopaths difference influences educational strategies, classroom dynamics, and institutional policies.

Exploring the Psychopaths and Sociopaths Difference: Implications for Education

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After four decades of marriage, they started to fight about politics and wanted different things. They decided to join the growing gray divorce trend.

My husband and I divorced because of differing political beliefs. I still love him, but we want different futures.

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The Psychology of Influence

Persuasion is governed by certain principles that can be learned and applied by anyone. Key principles of persuasion are liking, reciprocity, social proof, consistency, authority, and...

The Psychology of Influence

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