Here's What Teens Mean When They Tell You to "Say Less"

From “bussin” to “no cap,” today’s teens waste no time getting to the point, and the popular slang term “say less” is no different. On the surface, “say less” seems rude, especially if it’s said to a parent—but for the most part, it’s actually a sign that you’re on the same page.

Here, we’ll add another definition to your teen slang dictionary as we cover what “say less” means, where it came from, and how today’s youth are using it in everyday conversation.

What Does “Say Less” Mean?

When teenagers respond with “say less,” it typically means “I understand” or “I get it.” Think of it as an updated version of “say no more” or “gotcha”—it conveys that they get the gist of what you’re saying, and no more explanation is needed. It can also be used as a way to say, “I agree.”

“Say less” is a primarily positive response among today’s teens, but there are occasions when it may be used in more literal terms, meaning “stop talking” or cut it out.” In this case, it’s usually said in an argumentative or angry tone.

The Origin of “Say Less”

The phrase "say less" originated in African American Vernacular English (AAVE) as a way to express understanding and agreement. It has been popularized through various avenues including hip-hop music and urban culture as a means of straightforward digital communication.

The usage of “say less” now extends to people of all ages and backgrounds but is particularly popular among younger generations, who appreciate its concise yet direct meaning.

How Teens Are Using the Phrase “Say Less”

Whether online, via text, or in person, there are a few different ways teens are using this quick, to-the-point phrase:

To show understanding

The most common use of “say less” is to let someone know you’ve gotten the point of the conversation. Instead of having them continue to explain, you can use “say less” as a way to say you’re already aware, convinced, or on board with what they’re saying.

For example:

"I think we should start working on our group project later today." / “Say less—I have a laptop we can use.”

David Burke, an author of multiple books on American slang, also offers an example in a TikTok video :

"I just found 100 dollars!" / “Say less—you’re taking me out to dinner!”

To express agreement

“Say less” may sound negative, but for today’s teens, it’s anything but. Along with expressing understanding, this popular phrase can also exude enthusiasm for a statement or suggestion.

• Example 1:  "That new pizza place was amazing." / “Say less! The pepperoni was my favorite.”
• Example 2: “I was thinking we could see a movie Friday night.” / “Say less—I’ll be there.”

To ask someone to stop talking

This meaning isn’t as frequent among teens, but there are situations in which “say less” can be more argumentative . For example:

“ I didn’t think you wanted to come to the party.” / “Say less. You just didn’t want to invite me.”

Teen Slang Similar to “Say Less”

For teens, “say less” isn’t the only way to express enthusiasm or understanding. Here are a few more terms you might hear:

• Dope: Cool or awesome
• Fire: Amazing or on point
• Go Off: Encourages someone to continue talking, especially when they’re on a rant
• Lit: Exciting or cool
• Sic/Sick: Cool or sweet

The TL;DR? “Say Less” is a Harmless Teen Phrase

If anything, teen slang is a lesson in creativity: Phrases such as “no need to say anymore” or “that sounds amazing” are condensed into two simple words: “say less.”

As parents, we may not always understand why younger generations prefer to speak to each other in abbreviated sentences, but in this case, what’s the harm? There are plenty of teen slang terms to be concerned about, but “say less” isn’t one of them.

So, the next time your teen offers up a fun idea, why not throw out an enthusiastic “say less” in response? Who knows, you may get a “dope” or “sick” in return.

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