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Benign envy and malicious envy are two very different emotional and behavioral states that lead to different outcomes. In benign envy, a person who feels envious or jealous of another person uses that jealousy constructively to fuel their own goals. In malicious envy, a person who is jealous or envious goes out of their way to deliberately undermine someone else’s success in an attempt to belittle and diminish them and “one-up” them to gain power and control. Research reveals that people who have narcissistic and psychopathic traits engage in malicious envy – envy that is destructive and aggressive. Here are four subtle behaviors you may notice if a narcissist is jealous or envious of you.

Narcissists Who Are Jealous Of You Display These 4 Subtle Behaviors in Relationships

The sayings, “Actions speak louder than words,” and “It’s not what you say, but how you say it,” are popular adages for good reason. Our silent body language speaks volumes, but we may not always be aware of what we’re saying with it. The way we hold ourselves, our gestures, and even how we make eye contact can make a huge difference in how people perceive us.

5 body language habits that make you instantly more charming

If an adult child is struggling, it's important for parents to create a safe space for them. Frame your help as a partnership to get them back on track. The best thing you can do is offer support without judgment—and listen more than you speak. Parents often struggle to...

Silent Cries: 5 Signs Your Adult Child Is Struggling

Cell phone use can result in people feeling disconnected. Sometimes cell phone use is problematic, and sometimes it's not. We get into conflict when we break the couple bubble, turn away too frequently, or utilize attribution errors. It's clear that cell phones can help us to stay connected to old...

Is Cell Phone Use Always a Problem in Relationships?

In a relationship, imagine a woman who calmly addresses misunderstandings with grace, chooses to discuss rather than argue, and walks away from a heated moment with dignity—this is what classy women exemplify in their romantic engagements. Classy women navigate the complex dynamics of love with a composed demeanor, setting...

13 Things Classy Women Never Do in a Relationship

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In the mid-1970s, Good Timesmade a star of actor/comedian Jimmy 'JJ'/'Dynomite' Walker. However, behind the scenes, the tension between the stars was relatively challenging. According to what Jimmie Walker once relayed, most of the show's cast rarely had any interaction behind the camera. Walker didn't recall having any conversations with actress Esther Rolle, who played his TV mother, Florida Evans, or actor John Amos, who played James Evans, his TV mother.

Actor/Comedian Jimmie "JJ" Walker Behind the Scenes of TV's 'Good Times' in the 1970s

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Marriage counseling can be a pivotal step for couples experiencing difficulties in their relationship. It offers a safe space to address issues, improve communication and work toward a healthier partnership. However, the process often involves confronting uncomfortable truths and answering tough questions that can be challenging but ultimately transformative. Here are seven tough questions marriage counselors will likely ask during your sessions.

7 tough questions marriage counselors will ask

Requirements for doctor's notes of excuse for school absences are inequitable. Administrative labeling of absences as "excused," "unexcused," or "truant" are unhelpful. School-related anxiety places high demands on pediatric resources. As all parents know, the start of a new school year stirs up anxiety. How could it not? Going back...

Chronic Absenteeism and the Role of the Doctor's Note

Few things are more upsetting than trying to communicate with a partner who shuts down during an argument. No matter what you say or do, it feels like you can’t reach them. They’ve completely checked out – leaving you feeling helpless and rejected in return. This type...

What To Know About Stonewalling, The Silent Relationship Killer

Entering a new relationship is an exciting yet delicate journey. It’s natural to bring a part of your past with you, but when it comes to love, carrying the baggage of previous relationships can be detrimental to the fresh bond you are trying to create. This article explores five smart strategies to ensure that your past doesn’t overshadow your new romantic endeavor, enabling you to build a healthy, thriving relationship.

5 smart ways to avoid bringing past relationships into new love

Explosive aggression and emotional volatility can escalate into physical abuse over time. Jealousy and social isolation often leads to controlling and abusive behaviors. Others may see these signs. Gaslighting erodes trust and inflicts lasting psychological harm. These relationship behaviors as beige flags can serve as warning signs for future problems...

5 Beige Flags in Relationships

The issue of family estrangement is a societal phenomenon that hasn’t gotten much attention over the years. However, lately more studies have indicated it’s on the rise. According to Psychology Today, in an article published in January, there is data to suggest that as many as one in four people are estranged from at least one family member.

Family Estrangement on the Rise

It's been three years since beloved actress Betty Lynn passed away at 95 years old in 2021. As Thelma Lou on TV's 1960s classic sitcom, The Andy Griffith Show (CBS, 1960-68), actress Lynn was the ideal girl next door. As girlfriend to series star Don Knotts, who played Deputy Barney Fife to Griffith's lead Sheriff Andy Taylor, Lynn made Barney's heart flutter, and maybe a few home viewers too.

In Memory of 'Andy Griffith Show' Actress Betty Lynn ('Thelma Lou'): 3 Years After Her Demise

Five emotionally intelligent tools can help you with a narcissist. These tools draw from three main components of emotional intelligence. The first three include trusting how you feel, appearing calm, and understanding how a narcissist manipulates. Five emotionally intelligent tools may help you when you are dealing with a narcissist....

5 Ways to Use Emotional Intelligence Against a Narcissist

A new study indicates that individuals who exhibit Dark Triad traits tend to be more content in their romantic relationships when their partner also possesses similar traits. The research has been published in the Journal of Personality. The Dark Triad refers to a group of three antagonistic personality traits: psychopathy,...

People with dark personalities feel more satisfied in romantic relationships with partners who also exhibit similar dark traits

Overthinking in relationships can be a silent destroyer, turning every word, gesture, or delay in response into a potential disaster. It’s easy to get trapped in a cycle of doubt, where you start questioning everything, from your partner’s feelings to your own worth. However, with some conscious effort and strategies, you can break free from the grip of overthinking and cultivate a healthier, more secure mindset.

How To Stop Overthinking in Relationships

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There are few things than being trapped in a relationship with a narcissist. While I was fortunate enough to avoid this trap in my intimate relationships, it was something I witnessed over and over again growing up. The narcissists in my family (especially my mother) loved using manipulative tactics to control their partners.

How Narcissists Use Emotions to Control Their Relationships

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(MA) Meet Ada Awesome, an adorable little Yorkshire Terrier mix pup who is ready and waiting to curl up in your lap, bed, and life. Ada recently came into Dog Rescue New England's care for unspecified reasons. She is currently living safely in a foster home, but would definitely be much happier living in YOUR home. So what are you waiting for? Time to fill out that application!

This Little Yorkshire Terrier Is Looking For Love

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If you were lucky like I was, we had some amazing lunch ladies that made some of the best lunches. Alas, kids these days won't know how good food could be. Anyway, one of these items was a peanut butter bar dessert, and oh my goodness... it was such a prized item. If you were lucky, sometimes they'd let you come grab another one if lunch was just about over and they had extra (also rare). Keep in mind that this is for a jelly roll sized portion. If you would like to make a 9x 13 size portion, just cut the recipe in half. Here's what you'll need to make about 24 large or 48 small bars:

Lunch Lady Peanut Butter Bars

When my son Bill first exhibited signs of being sick after his freshman year away at college, it was surprisingly difficult to figure out what the problem was, even given my expertise as a psychiatrist with two decades of treating patients. The onset of psychiatric illness can be insidious. In...

A First Episode of Mental Illness

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Couple Identity: The Relationship Post-Baby

Research has demonstrated a decline in marriage quality following the birth of a baby. Parents tend to feel underappreciated and the frequency and intensity of conflict...

Couple Identity: The Relationship Post-Baby

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