Claim:
The late rapper Tupac Shakur once said, "Just because you lost me as a friend, doesn't mean you gained me as an enemy. I’m bigger than that, I still wanna see you eat, just not at my table."
Rating:
Unproven ( About this rating? )
Despite being gunned down at age 25 in 1996, Tupac Shakur's legacy in 2024 had not faded. His influence remained powerful, especially on social media, where a quote supposedly attributed to him continually circulates.
The viral quote reads : "Just because you lost me as a friend, doesn't mean you gained me as an enemy. I'm bigger than that, I still wanna see you eat, just not at my table. " For example, the below-displayed Instagram user shared the quote Oct. 1, 2024, crediting the words to Shakur.
(@1filipino Pride/Instagram)
But our research has yet to uncover any definitive proof that Shakur ever said or wrote these words, despite their wide reach on platforms like Reddit , Instagram , X , Facebook and TikTok . While users on those sites consistently link the quote to Shakur, we could not identify verified evidence — either in his interviews, music or movies — to confirm he was its originator.
In fact, it's unclear who (if anyone) first wrote or made the remark. Its origin story is unknown.
We explored multiple sources to come to our conclusion about Shakur's lack of definitive connection to the quote:
- Books and music : We reviewed " The Rose That Grew from Concrete ," Shakur's well-known poetry collection, which was published in 1999, three years after his murder in Las Vegas . We did not find the quote in the book. Additionally, the quote did not appear in his song lyrics and album liner notes. We also reviewed books and biographies written about Shakur, including Michael Eric Dyson's biography, " Holler If You Hear Me: Searching for Tupac Shakur. " We did not find the quote within those pages.
- Interviews and media appearances : We examined broadcast and radio interviews with Shakur from the 1990s, including those conducted by the Black Entertainment Television network, MTV News , E! News , and Vibe magazine, with no affirmative results. We also combed through hours of interviews on YouTube and print features, such as Chuck Philips' 1995 Los Angeles Times interview with Shakur, and didn't find any mention of the quote.
- Screenplays : Shakur's brief film and television career featured acting roles in such popular '90s movies as " Juice ," " Gridlock'd " and " Poetic Justice ." The quote was not in any of those screenplays.
- Online databases : A search through a database of newspapers and academic archives also yielded no evidence to connect the quote to Shakur.
In addition to that research, we contacted the Tupac Amaru Shakur Foundation (a community-oriented nonprofit organization founded by Shakur's mother, Afeni Shakur, and presided over by his sister, Sekyiwa Shakur) and Harvard University Hiphop Archive & Research Institute to ask about the alleged quote. We will update this article should we receive responses.
It's not just social media users who have attributed the quote to Shakur. During our analysis, we found the quote on Amazon merchandise with credit to Shakur. However, those products were not sold as official Shakur merchandise. Furthermore, the quote appeared on book enthusiasts website Goodreads , though without supporting evidence for why it lists Shakur as the statement's creator. The quote also appears on page 65 of " Surviving the Covert Narcissist: The Devil You Know," a memoir by Brian Phokeerdoss and as the title of a minimalist writing journal published by Nep's Notebooks , suggesting it may be more of a general motivational phrase than something Shakur said or wrote.
As of now, we have no definitive source to confirm, nor deny, Shakur made the comment. In other words, the claim is unproven, though we will will update this article if any new evidence surfaces.
Snopes has previously fact-checked claims involving Shakur, including the unfounded rumor that Sean "Diddy" Combs was "losing it" because Shakur's alleged murderer threatened to "rat [Diddy] out" and a genuine photo of Shakur posing next to Jada Pinkett Smith in high school.
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