The Key to a Healthy Relationship: Balancing Independence and Togetherness

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A healthy relationship is one of the best things in life. It is always fun to share everything with a partner, but where love is concerned, it is important to know the right balance between being together and being independent. Think of it like baking a cake: you require both flour and sugar for the tasty cake, but if you overdo it on the flour or sugar, the batter is ruined. Well, how can one maintain the recipe perfectly? In this article, you'll find out how to maintain a healthy relationship by balancing independence and togetherness.

Embrace Individuality

First of all, let's discuss the ' me' part of the 'we' concept; in any relationship, people always come with their likes, dislikes, and interests. These individual traits are not bad in a healthy relationship. In fact, it is like adding a pinch of salt to the relationship.

Imagine you're both painters. Your partner may be painting a scenery completely different from what you are painting. Both artworks are different from one another, but you can have them framed side by side, each complementing the aesthetics of your togetherness. Giving each other time apart for hobbies doesn't necessarily mean that a couple is growing apart, but it is an opportunity to enhance your time together. Loving and cherishing each other's hobbies makes for a healthy relationship.

Master The Art Of Quality Time

Now, let's talk about quality time. The thing is, it's not a crime to have your interests, and while dating, you don't have to spend all your time together. Quality time is about creating moments that you would both cherish. These moments make for a healthy relationship. People can keep the relationship alive by setting special dates. They can plan simple ones. You can both watch a movie on the weekend or cook a meal together, and this will help the bond. Couples should plan these cute moments and be attentive during those times. Do not be distracted by phones or other devices or turn your eyes away, and enjoy these moments.

Communicate Like Pros

Communication is one of the backbones of any relationship. Communication is key when trying to have a good balance between being independent and also being together. It is not only about discussing problems but also about the presentation of needs and wants.

If you find your partner being overbearing, do not be harsh and tell them to give you some space. Instead, find out how the two of you can get adequate space. On the other hand, if you feel that you need more shared activities, then tell your partner without finding fault in them. This is where communication turns from simple words into an effective means of keeping balance in the interpersonal relationship.

Final Thoughts

All in all, being independent and being together is quite similar to a dance. This is a reciprocal kind of dance where at times, you are advancing. At other times, you are withdrawing. In a healthy relationship, you should take time to grow as individuals as well as being together as two people in love. If you two appreciate each other's interests, spend time together, and talk with each other, you end up creating an interesting and stable relationship. So, dance through the ups and downs with grace and a sense of humor, and remember, a healthy relationship is all about being independent and together at the same time.

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Originally written by Ibukun King Okuneye