Why do I feel like I’m pushing my crush away?

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This article was written with the help of AI.

Feeling like you’re pushing your crush away can stem from insecurity, fear of rejection, or miscommunication. When you have feelings for someone, you may become overly aware of your actions, second-guessing yourself. This heightened self-consciousness can lead to anxiety, which might make you feel like you’re doing something wrong.

One of the main reasons people feel this way is due to low self-esteem or fear of vulnerability. If you're worried about getting hurt, you may unconsciously put up emotional barriers, making you seem distant or uninterested. This can create a gap between you and your crush, even if that's not your intention.

Overthinking your interactions is another common issue. You might replay conversations in your head, worrying that you said something awkward or gave off the wrong vibe. This can lead to strained behavior, further pushing your crush away. Instead of focusing on genuine connection, you may become preoccupied with how you're being perceived.

To break this cycle, focus on being present during interactions and trust your instincts. Often, the fear of pushing someone away is more about your internal fears than actual mistakes. Gaining confidence in yourself can help ease this anxiety.

Check out our article on "10 Ways You Are Pushing Your Crush Away & How To Stop Doing That" for more insights!