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Cats are often stereotyped as aloof and independent, but cat parents know that these furry creatures can form deep emotional connections with their humans. However, because cats are less demonstrative than dogs, it can sometimes be challenging to discern just how attached they are to you. Here are five undeniable signs that your cat is emotionally attached and genuinely treasures your relationship.

Following You Like a Shadow

Does your cat follow you from room to room, seeming to always pop up wherever you are? This isn’t just coincidental; it's a sign they feel comfort and security in your presence. Cats who are attached to their owners often like to keep them within sight, even if they're just lounging in the background while you go about your daily activities.

Belly Up Trust Display

A cat exposing its belly is one of the most vulnerable positions they can assume, which involves a great deal of trust. If your cat frequently lies on their back and shows you their belly, it’s a strong indicator of trust and emotional attachment—not necessarily an invitation for belly rubs, though, so proceed with caution!

Bringing Gifts

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Your cat might show their affection by bringing you "gifts," whether it’s a toy or something more... organic. Though not always pleasant, this behavior is rooted in the cat's instinct to provide for their loved ones and show their prowess.

Kneading and Purring

Kneading is a behavior that originates from kittenhood, when kittens knead their mother’s belly to stimulate milk flow. If your cat kneads you, they are reverting to this comforting kitten behavior and showing that they feel as safe with you as they did with their mother. Accompanied by purring, this is a sign of contentment and attachment.

Eye Contact with Slow Blinks

Eye contact in the feline world can be a complex signal, but when your cat looks at you and blinks slowly, it’s often referred to as a "cat kiss." This behavior is a profound expression of trust and affection, showing that they are comfortable and happy in your presence.

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• Galina V. Rogova (2008). Your Cat: Simple New Secrets to a Longer, Stronger Life. New York: Thomas Dunne Books.

Cats may not always wear their hearts on their sleeves, but their subtle ways of showing love can be just as meaningful as any grand gesture.