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    Please, Please, Please Tell Me How You Made New Friends As An Adult

    By Emily Kling,

    16 hours ago

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    Hi lovely members of the BuzzFeed Community! Quick question for you: have you tried making new friends recently?

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    It can be...stressful.

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    Just this year, I've had three friends move away, one friend had a baby, and one friend with whom I had a pretty rough disagreement, so we've decided to give each other some very necessary ~time and space.~

    Life happens, and friendships ebb and flow. But it can be a REAL BUMMER when there's more ebbing than flowing.

    So to the people who have succeeded at making friends as an adult: I want to hear about how you did it!

    Did you start a club, like a book, supper, or documentary club?

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    And if so, how did you find people to join? Any tips on how to ensure people actually show up?!

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    Did you join a sports league?

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    And if you're not keen on sports, is there another type of league that worked for you?

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    Did you have friendly banter with someone at the gym or grocery store and then ask them out on a friend date?

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    How did it go?!

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    Or did you reconnect with lapsed friendships from your past?

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    Hello, FB Memories Page.

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    TLDR: How have you made new friends as an adult? What has worked for you and why? Or is there anything you don't recommend?

    Share your experiences in the comments or by filling out this Google Form if you wish to remain anonymous. Your responses could get featured in a BuzzFeed Community post!

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