For those who decided not to age in old age: 5 wise pieces of advice from Andre Maurois

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Old age is not a joy, but it is better than death...

Aging is an inevitable part of life, but it doesn't have to be a burden. André Maurois, a French writer, believed that if you approach the process wisely, old age can be full of dignity and joy.

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Here are some wise tips from Andre Maurois for those who have decided not to age in old age.

1. Indifference is exhausting, don't let it set in.

There comes a time in every person's life when the usual way of life becomes not just comfort, but also a kind of anchor that holds us confidently in one place in a stormy sea of ​​changes. For older people, especially those left alone, this anchor is their home, their city, their routine. Sometimes, even the kindest and most caring attempts of loved ones to change something in their daily routine are met with misunderstanding and refusal.

You offer your elderly parents a trip to the sea or to another city to visit your relatives, a trip to the theater, to see a new film, and in response you hear a refusal and the question "Why?" And it's not that they are tired, feel bad, they just choose to sit at home and not go anywhere.

“Why?” – there is so much hidden in this question: fear of the new, unwillingness to leave the comfort zone, and perhaps even some fatigue with life.

This is precisely the terrible state of old age that Andre Maurois speaks of:

"The real evil in old age is not the weakness of the body, but the indifference of the soul."

One of the most important lessons that Maurois teaches is the danger of indifference. Indifference to life and the people around us can drain us. Be curious about the world, stay inquisitive, and keep your heart open.

2. Don't stop taking care of yourself

If, according to Morua, you continue to take care of yourself, pamper yourself, and wear beautiful clothes, then old age will not bring so much disappointment and negativity.

Taking care of yourself is important at any age. As you age, taking care of your body and mind becomes even more important.

Lead a healthy lifestyle by eating right, staying active and getting enough rest, and you will feel more energetic and youthful.

Lying on the couch in front of the TV will not give you energy, but on the contrary, will take it away.

“To do everything to smooth out the differences between youth and old age is the act of civilized people,” – André Maurois.

3. Find reasons to live

Purpose is vital to staying young at heart. Find something that excites you, something that makes you excited to get out of bed in the morning. Whether it’s a hobby, passion, or goal, having something to look forward to gives meaning to life. Do what brings you joy and fulfillment, and keep striving for new adventures and dreams.

Don't sit around doing nothing, because every moment is a chance to change something. Set goals, small and large, and move towards them. When we are active, aging seems to recede. We feel younger when our minds and bodies are busy, when we are full of energy and enthusiasm.

Just don't sit around doing nothing.

Andre Maurois said: “Aging is nothing more than a bad habit that a busy person does not have time to follow.”

4. Don't regret the past

Regrets can weigh heavily on our hearts and minds. Morois advises letting go of past mistakes and missed opportunities. Instead of dwelling on what you can’t change, focus on the present and the future.

"There are several ways to grow old unpleasantly. The worst of them is to try to hold on to what you can't get back." - André Maurois

5. The Art of Aging

Andre Maurois said: “The art of growing old is to be a support for the young and not an obstacle, a teacher and not a rival, understanding and not indifferent.”

Share your wisdom and experience with kindness and patience. Be understanding and empathetic, not indifferent. Not only does this enrich your life, it also gives you a deep sense of purpose and fulfillment.

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