Pulling away, exerting their independence, and keeping us at arm’s length are some of the ways adult children communicate their need to find their own way in the world. When this happens, many of us wonder what we’ve done wrong instead of remembering what we’ve done right.

7 Things Adult Children Want Their Parents to Know

People who are “single at heart” – who love being single and are happy and flourishing because they are single, not in spite of it – share something important: They cherish the time they have to themselves. That doesn’t mean they do not also value companionship and socializing; most do. But it does mean that they defy the common misperceptions that when people are alone, they are likely to be lonely, and that if they like spending time alone, maybe there is something wrong with them.

4 Good Reasons to Spend Time Alone

Many parents struggle with saying no and setting boundaries. Ten questions for self-reflection can help. (You don't have to answer them all at once.) Setting limits is a confusing aspect of raising children. Some parents find that their go-to methods aren’t effective, or something that’s effective with one child doesn’t work with the next. Others find themselves being harsh when they didn’t want to be—it’s just the way the words came out of their mouths. It can be hard to find your own way.

10 Questions to Guide Limit-Setting With Kids

Psychologists agree that rules, autonomy-granting, and love are the core components of parenting. Reasonable rules and expectations make kids feel safe and allow them to make good choices. The most important thing parents can do for their children is love them unconditionally. Helicoptering, gentle parenting, curling dads, French parenting ....

Rules, Autonomy, and Love: The 3 Parenting Basics

I was sitting by the indoor lap pool, waiting for a lane to open. (Usually at this pool there are just single swimmers in each lane.) Not more than three minutes passed when a woman in one of the lanes invited me to share her lane. What struck me was not only her unsolicited kindness, but the open-hearted appreciation I felt for hours afterwards, that made me want to return the kindness and pass it to someone else through my actions in some way. Her kindness felt contagious, and I wanted to spread it. Weeks later, I was with my 20-something niece and we stopped in a convenience store off the highway. She was taken by the kindness of one of the workers in the store and had a very similar experience, feeling filled up with warmth by the small kindness of another and a strong desire to express that kindness to others.

Kindness Is Contagious, and You Just May Want to Catch It

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Disclaimer: This article was written with the help of A.I. software. Kansas City Chiefs quarterback Patrick Mahomes, known for his prowess on the football field, made a personal announcement during a press conference on Tuesday. The three-time Super Bowl champion revealed that he and his wife, Brittany Mahomes, are expecting their third child and that this will be their last.

Patrick Mahomes Reveals He's 'Done' Having Kids with Wife Brittany Mahomes After Baby No. 3

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Resentment in relationships often starts subtly, like a small crack in a foundation that eventually grows into a larger issue if left unaddressed. It begins when one partner feels unheard, unappreciated, or taken for granted.

Proven Strategies to Let Go of Resentment in Your Relationship

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What distinguishes mentally strong people? How do they manage to maintain their inner mental strength despite all the challenges that life presents?. Every person faces different difficulties and problems in their life. Resentment, betrayal, disappointment, the pain of losing loved ones. At such moments, it is extremely important to maintain strength and composure in order to solve this or that problem. How a person reacts to obstacles depends on many factors, including education, the environment in which he lives, and inner strength.

4 Zodiac Signs With Strong Mental Health. No Obstacles In Life Can Stop Them

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Marriage counseling can be a pivotal step for couples experiencing difficulties in their relationship. It offers a safe space to address issues, improve communication and work toward a healthier partnership. However, the process often involves confronting uncomfortable truths and answering tough questions that can be challenging but ultimately transformative. Here are seven tough questions marriage counselors will likely ask during your sessions.

7 tough questions marriage counselors will ask

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Former child star Bobby Buntrock's life ended in tragedy. Best known as Harold “Sport” Baxter on the popular 1960s TV sitcom Hazel, Butrock died at only 21 years old in a car accident in 1974.

The Tragic Death of Child Star Bobby Buntrock, and How TV's 'Hazel' Shirley Booth Protected him

Bed-sharing is controversial due to associations with SIDS but also may have potential developmental benefits. There is little scientific investigation about the psychological effects of bed-sharing on children. Recent research shows no link between bed-sharing at 9 months and childhood emotional or behavioral problems. One common question for new parents...

Does Bed-Sharing Affect Children’s Psychological Development?

Relationships require effort, understanding, and a willingness to grow together. Despite best intentions, certain behaviors can undermine the strongest bonds. Let's delve into common relationship-damaging behaviors and how to avoid them.

Don’t Get Dumped! Common Behaviors That Ruin Relationships

I have encountered many people who struggle within their marriages yet find themselves unable to leave. Besides the fact that the average divorce costs $12k to $15k and up, there are a lot of reasons why people stay in unhappy marriages.

Why We Stick It Out in Failing Marriages

When left unspoken and unresolved, resentment doesn't just sit quietly. It festers. Once resentment takes root, it distorts one's perception. Resentment acts like acid, slowly eroding the ties that bind people to those they care about. Picture this: You’ve just had another argument with your partner about something trivial—maybe it...

3 Silent Ways Pent-Up Resentments Poison Our Lives

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In today's world, countless articles and videos promise to boost your attractiveness, likability, and influence. While adding new positive traits can enhance your personality, sometimes the key to improvement lies in eliminating detrimental habits.

The Top 5 Habits That Can Diminish Your Attractiveness

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A bill quietly introduced this spring in the Colorado legislature to decriminalize the possession of drug paraphernalia obtained by harm reductionists has become law. As low-key as the legislation was introduced, the bill was signed into law without fanfare June 6. It garnered little to no media attention.

Colorado legalizes needles, pipes for meth and crack if obtained by harm reduction group

You’ve been there for your child’s first words, first steps and first day of school. Are you ready for their first heartbreak?. It can be easy for adults to dismiss the feelings of a young teen going through their first real emotional breakup. As a parent with maturity and experience, you know these feelings will pass, that a broken heart won’t last forever and that your child will eventually find someone else to be smitten with.

For Teens, Breaking Up is Hard to Do

Trauma's impact varies; what may traumatize one person might not affect another. Trauma can be determined by bodily responses, not just the nature of the event. Understanding the nature of one's trauma aids them in seeking appropriate support and therapy. In my 13 years as a therapist, I’ve heard iterations...

What Is Trauma and Does My Experience Count?

Deciding to move in together is a significant step that should be approached with both emotional investment and rationality. Living together involves practical issues that should not be overlooked, in addition to the emotional aspects of the relationship. Financial matters, in particular, are a major source of tension in relationships, with over 26% of couples arguing about money on a weekly basis.

10 Questions to Ask Before Moving in Together

I've encountered numerous single men who struggle to understand why they remain alone despite their best efforts. Often, they unknowingly engage in behaviors that repel potential partners.

Breaking Down Habits That Keep Men Single

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Children and teens can vary in how much they feel loved by parents or caregivers from one day to the next. When they feel more loved,...

Want to Make Sure Your Children Thrive?

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